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Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER F “For the Families & Friends of those who have died by violence” 19620 North 38th Avenue, Glendale AZ 85308-2215 Chapter Phone: (602) 254-8818 Chapter E-mail: [email protected] * National Organization of Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. (POMC) 4960 Ridge Ave. Suite 2, Cincinnati, OH, 45209 (513) 721-5683 Fax: (513) 345-4489 Toll Free Number (888) 818-7662 http://www.pomc.com/phoenix/index.html Volume 25: No. 12 December 2016 https://www.facebook.com/pages/POMC-Valley-of-the-Sun/ MONTHLY SUPPORT MEETING LOCATIONS 4 th Tuesday - Grief Support Meetings All Meetings Start at 7:00 PM NO MEETINGS IN DECEMBER ◄EAST VALLEY MEETING► There is no longer a meeting at this location ◄WEST VALLEY MEETING► No meeting at this location this month Peoria Community Center 8335 West Jefferson Street Peoria AZ 85344 Facilitator: Joyce Lefler 602- 525-7217 ◄CENTRAL VALLEY MEETING► No meeting at this location this month Mountain View Police Precinct Community Room 2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ Facilitator: Beckie Miller Co-Facilitator: Carolee Holbrook 623-582-2406 ◄BILINGUAL MEETINGNo meeting at this location this month Queen of Peace Church 30 West 1 st Street Room St. John 7 Mesa, AZ 85201 Facilitators: Sandy & Paulino Navarro 480-695-4789 ◄◄SPEAKER/INFORMATION►► MEETING (2nd Tuesday of each month) *NO MEETING IN DECEMBER but please join us on December 3 for our Holiday Memorial Service at Church of the Beatitudes 555 West Glendale Ave Phoenix, AZ 6:00 p.m. Regular Speaker Meeting Schedule Begins Again on January 10, 2017 Tuesday, 7:00 pm *** Mountain View Police Precinct Community Room 2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ (off AZ 51 at 20th Street between Glendale Avenue and Bethany Home Road - Across from Granada Park) NEWSLETTER EDITOR Mail Memorial Page items for “The Journey” by the 10 th of the month prior to publication month to: POMC Newsletter 19620 North 38th Ave Glendale AZ 85308-2215 *Please use order form on Page 11 You can also email items to [email protected] Be sure to place any article or picture in an attachment, otherwise it can’t be accessed properly (especially pictures) and may not be used. Also, be sure to put POMC Newsletter in the subject line of the email. CRIME VICTIMS LEGAL ASSISTANCE PROJECT Free legal aid to help assert victims' rights through Arizona Voice for Crime Victims @ (480) 600-2661, P.O. Box 12722, Scottsdale, AZ 85261 or contact Mary Wallace at [email protected]

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Page 1: Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. · Angelita Montano December 6, 2009 Jeremy Reed December 6, 2009 Briana Naylor December 6, 2012 ... December 12, 1991 Brent Allen Lorentz December

Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER

F “For the Families & Friends of those who have died by violence”

19620 North 38th Avenue, Glendale AZ 85308-2215

Chapter Phone: (602) 254-8818 Chapter E-mail: [email protected]

* National Organization of Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc. (POMC)

4960 Ridge Ave. Suite 2, Cincinnati, OH, 45209 (513) 721-5683 Fax: (513) 345-4489

Toll Free Number (888) 818-7662

http://www.pomc.com/phoenix/index.html Volume 25: No. 12 December 2016 https://www.facebook.com/pages/POMC-Valley-of-the-Sun/

MONTHLY SUPPORT MEETING

LOCATIONS

4th

Tuesday - Grief Support Meetings

All Meetings Start at 7:00 PM

NO MEETINGS IN DECEMBER

◄EAST VALLEY MEETING► There is no longer a meeting at this location

◄WEST VALLEY MEETING► No meeting at this location this month

Peoria Community Center

8335 West Jefferson Street

Peoria AZ 85344

Facilitator: Joyce Lefler

602- 525-7217

◄CENTRAL VALLEY MEETING►

No meeting at this location this month

Mountain View Police Precinct

Community Room

2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ

Facilitator: Beckie Miller

Co-Facilitator: Carolee Holbrook

623-582-2406

◄BILINGUAL MEETING► No meeting at this location this month

Queen of Peace Church

30 West 1st Street Room St. John 7

Mesa, AZ 85201

Facilitators: Sandy & Paulino Navarro

480-695-4789

◄◄SPEAKER/INFORMATION►►

MEETING (2nd Tuesday of each month)

*NO MEETING IN DECEMBER but

please join us on December 3 for our

Holiday Memorial Service at Church of

the Beatitudes 555 West Glendale Ave

Phoenix, AZ 6:00 p.m.

Regular Speaker Meeting Schedule

Begins Again on January 10, 2017

Tuesday, 7:00 pm

*** Mountain View Police Precinct

Community Room 2075 East Maryland, Phoenix AZ

(off AZ 51 at 20th Street between Glendale

Avenue and Bethany Home Road -

Across from Granada Park)

NEWSLETTER EDITOR

Mail Memorial Page items for “The Journey” by

the 10th

of the month prior to publication month to:

POMC Newsletter

19620 North 38th Ave Glendale AZ 85308-2215

*Please use order form on Page 11

You can also email items to [email protected]

Be sure to place any article or picture in an

attachment, otherwise it can’t be accessed

properly (especially pictures) and may not be

used. Also, be sure to put POMC Newsletter in

the subject line of the email.

CRIME VICTIMS LEGAL ASSISTANCE

PROJECT

Free legal aid to help assert victims' rights

through Arizona Voice for Crime Victims @

(480) 600-2661, P.O. Box 12722, Scottsdale,

AZ 85261 or contact Mary Wallace at

[email protected]

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Dennis G. Pitt, Jr.

December 1, 2001

Arthur Murillo

December 1, 2001

Colin Champlin

December 1, 2010

Antonio Felix

December 1, 2011

Christopher Conan Milke

December 2, 1989

Ryan Andrew Osolin

December 2, 1997

Kristen Salem

December 2, 1999

Dawn Tucker Subia

December 2, 2001

Robert Dawahoya

December 2, 2002

Ernie Gomez

December 3, 2004

Lindsay Key

December 3, 2006

Nicole Glass

December 3, 2010

Douglas Elliott, Sr.

December 3, 2013

Edward “Eddie” Berber

December 4, 2005

John Anderson

December 5, 1991

DeShawn Peterson

December 5, 1993

Douglas Berry

December 5, 2008

Eric Aucker

December 5, 2009

Daniel Encinos

December 5, 2011

David Santiago

December 5, 2012

Angelita Montano

December 6, 2009

Jeremy Reed

December 6, 2009

Briana Naylor

December 6, 2012

Todd Bogers

December 7, 1991

Cory Michael Holmes

December 7, 1991

Greg Glover

December 7, 1993

Tawnya Dawn Knight

December 7, 1996

Angel Raul Pulido

December 7, 2007

Ebony & Elijah Robinson

December 7, 2007

Kemont Karim

December 7, 2015

Margret Daphne Dad

December 8, 1989

Margie Mendoza

December 8, 1991

Christopher Baker

December 9, 1988

Jason Quick

December 9, 1997

Rudy Gabriel Padilla

December 9, 2005

Son of Debbi Edwards

December 10, 1991

Jani Helen Martin-Mercado

December 10, 1997

Anthony Carnero

December 10, 2000

Laura Cazarez

December 10, 2002

Brian Farris

December 10, 2010

Tim Garsow

December 11, 1993

Robert Minley

December 11, 1998

Todd Trent

December 11, 2002

Ryan Miller

December 11, 2003

Preston Powers

December 11, 2010

Preston Royal

December 11, 2010

Savannah Katheryn Cross

December 11, 2012

Cody Soneberg

December 11, 2012

Khalli Lawrence

December 11, 2014

Todd M. DeVoy

December 12, 1991

Brent Allen Lorentz

December 12, 1992

Greg Glover

December 12, 1993

Thomas Frazee

December 12, 1994

David Martin

December 12, 1997

Brandon Tomoria

December 12, 2006

Robert “Bob” Pool

December 13, 1996

Jaime Mendoza

December 13, 1998

“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal.”

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Continued. . . .

Angelina Ramirez

December 13, 2008

Angel & Xavier Jaquez

December 13, 2010

Amanda Blaies-Rinaldi

December 13, 2011

Steven Comaduran

December 13, 2011

Eric Peterson

December 13, 2014

Michael Olson

December 14, 2001

Rylee Thomas

December 14, 2010

James Matthew Werbe

December 15, 1991

Scott Wood

December 15, 1994

Rebbeca Ray

December 15, 1998

Kim Marie Kirchoff

December 16, 1982

Brent Kisto

December 16, 2000

Matthew James Lord McLean

December 16, 2015

Darrin Wayne Hale

December 17, 2005

Ruben "Baby" Keahi Hernandez, II

December 17, 2005

Weyman Robbins

December 18, 2002

Phillipe Alvarez

December 18, 2007

Kaviahn Van Buren

December 18, 2007

Erica Rodriguez-Johnson

December 18, 2012

David Martin

December 20, 1997

Barbara Jean Tuttle

December 20, 2004

Joelle Morgia

December 20, 2008

Saskia

December 20, 2011

Robert Charles Hanson

December 21, 2006

Leah Falkins

December 22, 1999

Gabriel Ponce

December 22, 2011

Cortny Huffman

December 22, 2014

John Sullivan Maddox

December 23, 1992

John Schatz

December 23, 2001

Heather Quann

December 23, 2006

Zachary Rowe

December 23, 2008

Julie Freed

December 24, 1989

Christopher D. Parra

December 24, 2001

Christopher Farra

December 24, 2001

Gerald Anthony Lara

December 24, 2004

Paul Anthony Collette

December 25, 1979

Jesus Beltran

December 25, 2004

Alton DeShawn Daniel

December 25, 2015

Jesse Ramirez &

Edwin Pellecier

December 26, 2008

Bret Olson

December 27, 1997

Shamaya Holmes

December 27, 2008

Adam Troy Cooley

December 27, 2010

Tory Randell Hayes

December 28, 2012

Garrett Bardwell

December 29, 1990

Tori Ann Shupe

December 29, 1994

Jennifer & Britteny Price

and Lynn Oliver

December 29, 2001

Brianna Lois Wells

December 29, 2014

Ron Hermanson

December 30, 1998

Arturo Neri

December 30, 2001

Every effort is made to ensure

accuracy on these pages. Please

notify us immediately with any

errors or changes.

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VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER NEWS

TRIAL, JUDICIAL & ARREST UPDATES

Sentencing for both killers of little Savannah Cross was October 21. Reed received 35 years for second degree

murder, child abuse and 2 counts of attempted sexual conduct with a minor. Clement received 24 years for

second degree murder and 3 counts of attempted child abuse. Both were daycare providers entrusted with the

care of Savannah.

Sentencing for the killer of Dershawn Stuard, son of Meike Mitchell, has been rescheduled for January 13th.

“Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with each and every family member as they endure this difficult

process.”

IN LOVING MEMORY GIFT DONATIONS (THANK YOU!) (*All donations are tax deductible: Our chapter exists on the generosity of others, grants, and fundraisers)

♥ Olga Valenzuela in very loving memory of her daughter, Margie Mendoza.

♥ Sandy & Paulino Navarro in very loving memory of their son, Michael Garcia.

♥ Don & Beckie Miller in very loving memory of their son, Brian Ray Miller.

♥ Carolee Holbrook in very loving memory of her son, Brett Holbrook.

CORPORATE & OTHER DONATIONS THANK YOU! UNITED WAY (Please Note: the write-in number to designate funds to our chapter through your employee

contributions is 0772). You must use this number for designating any funds to go to our chapter. Our chapter

name is not listed except by number.

AMERICAN EXPRESS - donations from Norma Yanez, anonymous, and Lindison Y. Webb in honor of

Del Edward Webb, and Tara E. Williams in memory of her brother Kirk Best and mom, Sally Whitney.

►►SPEAKERS FOR IMPACT OF CRIME ON VICTIMS CLASSES AT FLORENCE PRISON◄◄

Our chapter in past years has provided victims to speak in Arizona prisons as part of Restorative Justice and in

the ICVC (Impact of Crime upon Victims) classes. The inmates go through training to learn the effects of their

crime upon society and their own families, as well as the victims. At the end of the classes, a victim comes in

and speaks about how the crime impacted their own family, bringing pictures or videos, etc. The classes are

being revamped at Florence Prison and we have the opportunity to make a difference through impacting those

inmates who will be getting out of prison one day, to hopefully not commit crimes again. There are different

classes including: Homicide, Domestic Violence, Assault, Sexual Assault, Substance Abuse, Robbery and

Property Crimes, Drunk Driving, Child Abuse and Crimes Against the Elderly.

If you are interested in participating, please contact Beckie by email [email protected] or phone 602-254-

8818 and indicate which class (classes) you would be willing to speak at. We currently have some of the

classes filled but if the one you choose is full, we will put you down for the next session of classes that would

begin after November, likely into the coming new year. If you decide to speak, you will have to be cleared to go

into the prison by providing the coordinator with your birthdate and social security number.

COLD CASE REGISTRY FOR HOMICIDES (PHOENIX POLICE DEPARTMENT)

The Phoenix Police Department has a Cold Case Registry on line. The link is

http://phoenix.gov/police/investigations/coldcase/index.html.

COLD CASE REGISTRY FOR HOMICIDES MCSO (SHERIFF'S OFFICE)

The Maricopa County Sheriff's Office has a cold case registry for any victim, victim's family member, or other

lawful representative of a victim of a cold case who requests to be included in the registry. This process

provides law enforcement with an avenue to contact family when there are new developments in the case.

In order to submit a request, please contact the MCSO Homicide Unit. Telephone: 602-876-1087. E-mail:

[email protected]

SPEAKER INFORMATION MEETING – DOCUMENTARY MOTHERLAND

Our speaker meeting in November featured a documentary entitled “Motherland”, which featured 6 women, all

grieving the loss of a child, on a journey of hope and healing. They traveled to the poorest part of South Africa

for an intensive pilgrimage working with children in the rural area of Africa. With grief in their hearts and a

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willingness to make a difference, this intrepid group of women traveled halfway around the world to work as

volunteers in order to test the theory that “Giving can be Healing.” The film “Motherland”, tells the story of

this inspirational journey and how, for 12 special days, the lives of these women were changed. We were

reminded during the video there is no instruction manual or “right way” to grieve. The film explored the

healing power of service, explored the differences between the American women’s experience of suffering and

that of the African women they meet along their journey and it raises questions about Western Culture’s

approach in dealing with life and loss. The film ultimately celebrated the women’s ability to survive, to heal,

and to live again. It was also notable how the African women and children still find such joy in life when they

have so little and have lost so much of their own family and friends to poverty and AIDS.

ANNUAL HOLIDAY MEMORIAL IN DECEMBER – PICTURES FOR VIDEO NEEDED

On Saturday, December 3, @ 5:30 pm, we will have our annual Holiday Memorial Service, “In Their Loving

Memories”, at The Church of the Beatitudes, 555 West Glendale Avenue. Invitations for this event will arrive

in the mail approximately 2 weeks ahead of time but mark your calendars now if you wish to attend. We have a

beautiful memorial video presentation so if your loved one’s picture is not already in it and you want it to be,

please send a picture by mail or e-mail attachment by November 21st. RSVPs are required for this event as we

have a catered dinner following it.

FRY’S COMMUNITY REWARDS PROGRAM FUNDRAISER FOR OUR CHAPTER

Our chapter is now a part the Fry’s Community Rewards program. If you shop there, can simply sign up (one

time only) to connect your VIP card and we will get a percentage of proceeds. Just go to

http://www.frysfood.com, select Register, under Sign In information, enter your email and create a password.

Select User Card # and enter your Fry's VIP number, last name and zip code. Under Select Your Preferred

Store, enter zip code of that store. Select Find Your Store then select Create Account. You will be prompted to

confirm your email. Click the hyperlink to finish creating your Online Account. If you already have an Online

Account with Fry's, you can skip this and go to https://frysfood.com/topic/community?activePage=community-

rewards-2. Select Sign In and enter your email and password. Select My Account and then Account Settings

from drop down menu. Click Edit under Community Awards. Under Find Your Organization, select box next

to POMC and enter the NPO number #29432. Save changes and you are good to go. If you have registered

correctly, you should see our organization information listed under "Community Rewards" on your account

summary page. Thanks for your support.

CHAPTER SIBLING COORDINATOR Amanda Harris is our Sibling Coordinator and provides support for siblings outside of meetings. You can

reach her by phone for more information at 623-866-3189. Amanda lost her brother, Joshua, to murder and

understands the sibling grief in a way only a sibling can.

JANUARY BOARD OF DIRECTIONS ELECTIONS MEETING

At our January 10, Speaker Information meeting, we will also have our annual elections meeting for your

chapter’s Board of Directors. If you are interested in serving on the board, you must be able to help with all

chapter events and duties throughout the year and attend board meetings which are held the second Saturday of

every other month beginning in January. Please contact me at [email protected] or call 602-254-8818. We

currently have 11 board member positions.

AFFIRMATION OF POMC NON-DISCRIMINATION POLICY

“It shall be the policy of Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc., to provide equal membership/employment service opportunities to all

eligible persons without regard to race, religion, color, national origin, citizenship, age, sex, sexual orientation, marital status, parental

status, disabilities, membership in any labor organization, political affiliation, and for employment only, height, weight, and record of

arrest without conviction.”

*If you feel you have been discriminated against you may file a complaint with our National Office, 4960 Ridge Avenue, Suite 2,

Cincinnati, Ohio 45209. www.pomc.org (513) 721-5683

To refer a complaint to an appropriate investigating entity: Washington, D.C. 20531 www.ojp.gov

In order to file with the federal Office for Civil Rights (OCR) two forms must be downloaded from the internet and submitted in

writing to the ORC. The forms can be found at www.ojp.gov/about/ocr/complaint.htm.

Arizona Department of Public Safety Civil Rights Coordinator

PO Box 6638 - MD 1320 Phoenix AZ 85005-6638 (602) 223-2491 www.azdps.gov/services/crime_victims

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NEWS FROM NATIONAL POMC

☺ CINCINNATI OHIO OFFICE☺ 4960 Ridge Avenue, Ste 2, Cincinnati OH 45209

888-818-7662 Website: www.pomc.org

• SAVE THE DATE: The 2017 National Conference will be held in Irvine, California at the Hilton Irvine/Orange County

Airport on August 3 – 6, 2017. The rooms will be $119 per night and there is a free airport shuttle. More information

about the conference will follow when available on the POMC website.

•The POMC CATALOG has been added to the home page on the website. Please check out the website www.pomc.org

for our inventory of sale items. Some of the items are new and are available for purchase. Some of the older items are on

sale.

●SURVIVORS NEWSLETTER: The National Newsletter is going green and we are currently in the process of getting

email addresses and switching over. If you do not have a computer or access to one you will still receive a hard copy if

you notify the National Office. There is a lot of time put in to creating, editing and assembling the Newsletter for

distribution thus we will still charge $10 for the subscription. POMC's effort to be more cost effective, generate some

income, and going green make it a logical step to take.

●DONATIONS AND SUPPORT OF NATIONAL POMC: There are many ways to help with much needed funds for

POMC including any items you buy on Amazon.com, as well as if you shop the Kroger Stores. It is very simple and does

not cost you anything and yet your purchase allows a percentage from these companies to go directly to National. Please

go on-line to www.pomc.org and see how you can sign up for this or contact Bev Warnock - [email protected]

POMC Goodsearch donates money to POMC when you search the Internet, shop online or dine out at local restaurants!

Use Goodsearch.com to search the Internet and they donate a penny per search to POMC. Use Goodshop.com when you

shop online and they donate a percentage of every purchase and offer over 100,000 coupons to help you save money too!

Sign up for their Good dining program and they'll donate a percentage of your restaurant bill when you eat at any one of

thousands of participating restaurants. It's really easy, it's free and turns simple everyday actions into a way to help

POMC. Please sign up today to help support Parents Of Murdered Children - POMC. Go to www.goodsearch.com to get

started.

NEW FUNDRAISER: No need to worry about parking or getting a designated driver-we've partnered with Uber to get

everyone to and from events safely! Uber is evolving the way the world moves. By seamlessly connecting riders to drivers

through our app, Uber makes cities more accessible, opening up more possibilities for riders and more business for

drivers. New to Uber? Sign up with promo code POMCORG to get your first ride FREE, up to $20! Plus, Uber will

donate $5 back to POMC. Check out Uber pro tips here: uber.com/features. Promo Code: POMCORG Sign up Link:

Uber.com/go/pomcorg ●AUTO DONATIONS: We are encouraging all chapters and contact persons to get involved with POMC Debit

Authorization. You can now donate to NATIONAL POMC by setting up an automatic withdrawal from your bank

account to National. Contact National for a debit authorization form. This is a fast and easy way to make a donation to

National to help us help others. Your donation is withdrawn at the same time of the month, each month, and no amount is

too small. We appreciate your help during these difficult economic times.

●PAROLE BLOCK PROGRAM: To date, this program has kept more than 1509 prisoners who committed murders

from being released early. Parole Block was begun in 1990 and all members across the United States whose loved one’s

killer is up for early release/parole consideration can file a petition with National that is sent nationwide for signatures

protesting their release.

SECOND OPINION SERVICES: A program that provides second opinions on unsolved or complicated cases by a

national board comprised solely of experts in the medical, law enforcement and investigative fields.

MURDER IS NOT ENTERTAINMENT (MINE) PROGRAM: Through this program, POMC raises public

awareness to the insensitivity of murder as entertainment through toys, games, murder mystery weekends, drive-by

shooting fashions, serial killer trading cards, and anything that glamorizes violence.

BIG TURN OFF: This is an annual event, each January, in which citizens are asked to turn off their televisions for one

evening during prime time hours to protest the violence on television.

MURDER WALL: A traveling tribute honoring the memories of murder victims. A photo album is also available with

each plaque. Currently, the cost is $75 to add your loved ones’ names to the Walnut Plaques that comprise the Murder

Wall. You have two pages for the photo album to add information, poetry or pictures.

SILENCED VOICES: A program begun in January 2002, which advocates for the vigorous investigation and

prosecution of those responsible for the murder of abused children. The first case was that of Brandi Conley. POMC was

instrumental in bringing charges against her parents.

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Merry Christmas from Heaven (by: John William Mooney, Jr.)

I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below

With tiny lights, like Heaven’s stars, reflecting on the snow. The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away the tear

For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear But the sounds of music can’t compare with the Christmas choir up here.

I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring, For it is beyond description, to hear the angels sing.

I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart But I am not so far away, We really aren’t apart.

So be happy for me, dear ones, You know I hold you dear. And be glad I’m spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

I sent you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above.

I sent you each a memory of my undying love. After all, love is a gift more precious than pure gold.

It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.

Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do. For I can’t count the blessing or love he has for each of you.

So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear Remember, I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

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Briana Naylor

Briana, I remember in ’98, I had this breathtaking baby girl enter into my life. And the proof is in the pudding, looking at the memories framed at perfect timing, hanging in frames that should be made of the most beautiful of things that would attract every person’s eyes to see the worth of pure eternal love you had in and still do have from everyone that knows you, as their child, sibling, grandchild, great grandchild, niece, cousin, friend, student, shoulder to lean on, an ear to listen, church family homie, and last, but not least, Best friend. We all have you as different roles in our lives and we all know and love you for whichever one they're identifying you to them as they read this. It’s taken me a long time to try and write the perfect words for you. We're all still grieving, have a picture they look at and love you and some have thought, voice recordings, video, and pictures of memories of good times you allowed us to bask in your glory (inside joke) but this isn’t what we want; we all want you here doing each title they identify themselves with because of the unfortunate situation we have memories. We also have new family members. The people whom we've met after your life was taken away. The families before us that feel our pain. The ones that cry with us because they didn't get to meet you. They only know of you by what memories we share of you. Like they do with us of their loved one who was ripped out of their lives without answers. Grieving like us, wanting the same thing we do. To have you back. I still have a very unstable mind. Four years ago, your life, Briana Amelia Naylor, was taken away from not just us, but the entire world. We will never know what it would of been like to watch you walk across the stage to receive your junior high diploma, what did we get?! We got a moment of silence after they said your name. I know you didn't want us to celebrate that way. But we will forever be curious when you come across our mind; what would you be doing at this exact moment? Would you be graduating which school cause this 11/11/16 would be your senior year at the school you had in mind North High school? It’s Friday evening so I would picture you sitting with me at this exact moment watching the sunset. And me in another 4 years? Would you be graduating Grand Canyon University? The future goals you planned while you were here on Earth? I have so many unanswered dreams you shared and the curiosity as here; what would you look like today? Who would you marry? Would I ever had been a grandma? Just so many unanswered dreams I will never know about I now call nightmares. Because I'll never get the those answered, just imagining. That’s all I get now, that’s all the world gets now. Our memories, love, grief, curiosity and pain of something that I personally wish death on every day. Would you become a doctor like you wanted? Save lives and be loved for helping others? No one that knows you, or heard our memories of you or even someone reading we will wonder. That's all we have. I loved you and will love you forever and a day. Just like every child’s name in these newsletters. It killed me to write all this four years ago and still does. I’ve got to end this letter now. You know why. Happy 18th birthday, it was very hard to lay you to rest the day after your 14th birthday. I'll write your name across the sky and take away the stars because you light up my life. I'm as high as the moon when you’re here with me; that's why I wanna write your name for the world to see. Love you forever my lil mommas. Mommy. :'(

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IN LOVING MEMORY

9

Brendon Eric Chavez 12/10/1977-10/05/2001

We will always love you son. Mom and Dad

Brendon; I want to wish you a heavenly Birthday. I Love and miss you; only you will know! You were taken from us at age 24; two months later you had a birthday. You would be 39 years old. Wow, I think what would you look like? Grey and thinning hair and wrinkles? Just kidding! Maybe not that bad. Hahahah! In my mind, I see you, I talk to you, and in my head, you answer me back. I miss you, brother. Fifteen years have come and gone. My memories of you still fresh, as your voice, the smell of your cologne, your smile, I hold dear to soul. You will always be with me, brother. Until I see you again, fly high with the angels and save a place for me. Love you, miss you, always brother! Sonia... xoxo!

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Margie Mendoza 2/11/1972 – 12/8/1991

SAFELY HOME

I am home in Heaven, dear ones;

Oh, so happy and so bright!

There is perfect joy and beauty

In this everlasting light.

All the pain and grief is over,

Every restless tossing passed;

I am now at peace forever,

Safely home in Heaven at last.

Did you wonder I so calmly

Trod the valley of the shade?

Oh! But Jesus’ love illumined

Every dark and fearful glade.

And He came Himself to meet me

In that way so hard to tread:

And with Jesus’ arm to lean on,

Could I have one doubt or dread?

Then you must not grieve so sorely,

For I love you dearly still:

Try to look beyond earth’s shadows,

Pray to trust our Father’s Will.

There is work still waiting for you,

So you must not idly stand;

Do it now, while life remaineth –

You shall rest in Jesus’ land.

When that work is all completed,

He will gently call you Home;

Oh, the rapture of the meeting,

Oh, the joy to see you come!

Author Unknown

Missing you,

Your family,

Mom, Cea, Mike, Tony, Jose, Liz, Johnnie,

and your daughter, Angelina

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VALLEY OF THE SUN

BOARD OF DIRECTORS (2016)

Beckie Miller, Chapter-Leader .......... .(623) 582-2406 Don Miller, Treasurer ....................... .(623) 582-2406

Claudia Marco, Co-Leader/Secretary..(480) 290-3908

Amanda Harris, Co-Leader..................(623) 866-3189 Kathy Hernandez,................................(623) 707-6825 Tim Osolin ....................................... ...(602) 615-7096 Mary Wallace……………………….…..(602) 448-9425 Denise Brewer..……………………......(917) 696-2928 Sandy Navarro.....................................(480) 695-4789 Paulino Navarro...................................(602) 828-1106 Arrow McCullough...............................(602) 677-5258 (Volunteers) Carolee Holbrook - Office Assistance Denise Brewer - Anniversary Note Writer Kathy Hernandez - Facebook Page Coordinator

CONTACT NUMBERS

SIBLING SUPPORT: Amanda Harris is our chapter's

Sibling Coordinator providing support for siblings. Her

contact info is 623-866-3189 or email is:

[email protected]

POMC VOICE MESSAGING)....................(602) 254-8818

Chapter E-mail.……………………. [email protected]

Chapter Fax: .................................................(623) 582-0917

CRISIS LINE/MOBILE CRISIS TEAM

Empact Crisis Line ............................ ..(480) 784-4949

OTHER HELP LINES

Teen Lifeline.......................................…...(602) 248-8336

GrandCare (Grandparents help line) .....(602) 274-5022

Crime Victims Legal Assistance Project (480) 965-5640

MCAO Victim Services.............................(602) 506-8522

Crime Victim Compensation....................(602) 506-4955

♥♥♥ THANKS FOR CARING ♥♥♥ To the Mountain View Police Precinct for donating our meeting room, as well as Mountain View Lutheran Church. To the Department of Public Safety (VOCA), for the grant for our newsletter, and everyone who has donated gifts of their time, talents and energy to our chapter activities. With your help, we are able to continue the outreach that is needed by our community.

Memorial Wall Order Form

Please add my loved one’s name to the “Valley of the

Sun Memorial Wall in their Memories.” Each

Nameplate is $10. Our wall is displayed at many

special events across the valley during the year.

NAME__________________________________

Age:___________ Murder date: _____________

Picture Board

___ Check here if sending picture for the picture

board & Holiday Memorial Video (no cost).

You may email picture to [email protected]

Chapter Bracelets

Red and black with words “Always in our Hearts.” $3

each # ordered _____

Chapter Window Decals

$10 each for auto or home with our logo and chapter

information: # ordered _____

*Make all checks or money orders out to POMC

*Mail to 19620 North 38th Avenue

Glendale AZ 85308-2215

Call 602-254-8818 and leave a message if you wish

to pay by credit card. Minimum $20 order

“The Journey” Memorial Page Order Form (newsletter)

Please reserve: □ ½ page (suggested donation of $10)

□ Full pg (suggested donation of $20)

Month you wish memorial to appear in: ________________

Loved One’s Name________________________________

Age _____

Date of Death_______________

YOUR Name_____________________________________

YOUR Phone Number______________________________

YOUR E-MAIL __________________________________

A half page will hold a picture and short poem OR message,

depending on space. If a photo is included, please provide

identification of the person on the back. If you wish the photo to

be returned include a self-addressed stamped envelope, big

enough for the picture to fit in. Unless otherwise specified,

location, size and structure of the text and picture will be at

editor’s discretion and space permitting.

**We also, if space is available, print "Survivor to Survivor"

stories if you would like to send in a one page, single spaced and

typed document. Also, if you have written poetry about your loss

or have a favorite poem to share with others. We do edit for

misspellings and or profanity. There is no charge for these

items, either poetry or shared stories.

*Return this form with your material for The Journey by the 10th

of the month preceding the issue you wish it to appear in; for

example: September 10 for October's newsletter, etc.

*A donation for the memorial page can be made by sending a

check made out to POMC and mailed in care of:

POMC

Valley of the Sun Chapter

19620 North 38th Avenue

Glendale AZ 85308-2215

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Return Address PARENTS OF MURDERED CHILDREN, INC. VALLEY OF THE SUN CHAPTER

19620 North 38th Avenue Glendale AZ 85308-2215 (602) 254-8818

WHY WE ARE HERE: MISSION STATEMENT: “POMC makes the difference through ongoing emotional support, education, prevention, advocacy, and awareness.” VISION STATEMENT: “To provide support and assistance to all survivors of homicide victims while working to create a world free of murder.” This project is supported by Grant No. 2014-VA-GX-0018 from the US Department of Justice - Office for Victims of Crime. The opinions, findings, and conclusions or recommendations expressed in this publication/program/exhibition are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of the US DOJ or the Arizona Department of Public Safety.

Parents Of Murdered Children, Inc., is a self-help organization dedicated to the aftermath of murder. The success of its mission depends upon the participation of the families and friends of those lost to murder. POMC number (602) 254-8818