pleasure is our revolution - wcsap
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PLEASURE IS OUR REVOLUTIONwith Jenn Mason, Owner of WinkWink
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ALL-AGES INCLUSIVE NOT CREEPY
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We celebrate sexual expression and exploration, banish shame, and help our customers to better love themselves and others.
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ABOUT ME
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WHY DOES THIS WORK MATTER?
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The Plan:
1. What messages are people receiving about sex?2. What is sex-negativity vs. sex-positivity?3. What is sexual liberation?4. How does some sexual assault prevention reinforce problematic
messages?5. How can you implement sex-positivity into your work?
THE PLAN:
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1. Where did you learn about sex and relationships?
REFLECTION:
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2. What were the messages you received about sex?
REFLECTION:
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VIEWS SEX AS TABOO.
SEX NEGATIVITY…
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USES SHAME AS A TOOL TO SHAPE BEHAVIOR.
SEX NEGATIVITY…
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CENTERS ON RISKS AND NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES.
SEX NEGATIVITY…
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DENIES ACCESS TO EDUCATION.
SEX NEGATIVITY…
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ALLOWS FOR A NARROW DEFINITION OF SEX.
SEX NEGATIVITY…
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SHAMES HAVING TOO MUCH SEX…AND NOT ENOUGH.
SEX NEGATIVITY…
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VALUES CERTAIN BODY TYPES OVER OTHERS.
SEX NEGATIVITY…
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BELIEVES ONLY CERTAIN PEOPLE DESERVE PLEASURE.
SEX NEGATIVITY…
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PLEASUREWhat and who’s
is most acceptable?
White
Cisgender
Straight
Non-disabled
Young to middle-age adults
Neurotypical
Conventionally attractive body and looks
Monogamous
“Vanilla”
Men
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PLEASUREWhat and who’s
is most acceptable?
White
Cisgender
Straight
Non-disabled
Young to middle-age adults
Neurotypical
Conventionally attractive body and looks
Monogamous
“Vanilla”
POC
Kinky
Non-monogamous
Neurodivergent
Fat bodies, not conventionally attractive
Teens and young adults, seniors
People with disabilities
LGBTQIA+
Transgender and non-binary
Men Women
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UPHOLDS ASSUMPTIONS AND STEREOTYPES.
SEX NEGATIVITY…
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DEFAULTS TO STRAIGHT, CISGENDER MEN AS PRIORITY AND IDEAL TEMPLATE.
SEX NEGATIVITY…
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BELIEVES OPEN SEXUAL COMMUNICATON IS EMBARRASSING
AND UNSEXY.
SEX NEGATIVITY…
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TREATS TEEN RELATIONSHIPS WITH AMBIVALENCE, CONDESCENSION, OR
HOSTILITY
SEX NEGATIVITY…
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Teaching sexual assault prevention in a sex-negative context makes it difficult to be believable.
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BELIEVES SEX IS NORMAL AND HEALTHY.
SEX POSITIVITY…
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USES AFFIRMATION AND CHOICE AS A TOOL TO SHAPE BEHAVIOR.
SEX POSITIVITY…
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CENTERS ON PLEASURE (WHICH INCLUDES
REDUCING HARM).
SEX POSITIVITY…
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ENCOURAGES AND OFFERS ACCESS TO EDUCATION.
SEX POSITIVITY…
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ALLOWS FOR LOTS OF WAYS TO EXPRESS SEXUALITY.
SEX POSITIVITY…
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AFFIRMS CHOICES TO HAVE LOTS OF SEX OR NONE AT ALL.
SEX POSITIVITY…
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VALUES ALL BODY TYPES.
SEX POSITIVITY…
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BELIEVES ALL PEOPLE ARE INHERENTLY DESERVING OF EXPERIENCING PLEASURE
SEX POSITIVITY…
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BREAKS DOWN AND RESISTS ASSUMPTIONS AND STEREOTYPES
SEX POSITIVITY…
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CENTERS ON INDIVUDUALITY AND PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
SEX POSITIVITY…
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BELIEVES COMMUNICATION IS ESSENTIAL FOR INTIMACY, PLEASURE
AND SAFETY
SEX POSITIVITY…
(and is pretty sexy too)
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•Defined by one’s self, rather than external factors•Free to explore and pursue one’s own desires•Able to express desires, consent, and limits•An embodied, integrated part of self•Self-mastery
SEX LIBERATION IS…
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Are we reinforcing problematic narratives in our work?
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•Added hostility toward young relationships•Gatekeeper vs. conqueror•Alcohol as a sexual crutch
NARRATIVES:
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Consent, when rooted in a sex-negative framework, allows for harmful messages and power imbalances to remain socially desirable.
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HARM
TRADITIONAL CONSENT FRAMEWORK:
How do we move people away from harm?
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HARM ?WHAT ARE WE MOVING PEOPLE TOWARDS?
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How do we move people towards pleasure?
PLEASUREHARM
SEX-POSITIVE CONSENT FRAMEWORK
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What happens when sexual pleasure is also unacceptable or left undefined?
PLEASUREHARM
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HOW CAN YOU INTEGRATE SEX-POSITIVITY INTO YOUR WORK?
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ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR OWN JUDGMENTS AND LIMITATIONS
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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ACKNOWLEDGE THAT YOU CARE ABOUT THEIR SEXUAL WELL-BEING
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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TALK ABOUT BOTH GOOD SEX AND SEXUAL ASSAULT
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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BE HONEST, REALISTIC, AND NUANCED
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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BE CULTURALLY-RELEVANT
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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LET PARTICIPANTS TEACH EACH OTHER
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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UNDERSTAND AND QUESTION SEX-NEGATIVE NARRATIVES
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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PROMOTE COMMUNICATION INSTEAD OF JUST CONSENT
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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HELP ENVISION SOMETHING BETTER
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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TALK ABOUT GENDER NORMS AND PLEASURE
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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ADDRESS FETISHIZATION AND VIOLATIONS BASED ON RACE/CLASS/ABILITY/-ISMS
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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TEACH REJECTIONRESILIENCE
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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TALK ABOUT PORN(CHECK YOUR OWN JUDGMENTS)
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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HELP PARTICIPANTS CLAIM THEIR PLEASURE
(yes/no/maybe list, etc.)
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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EXPAND YOUR OWN KNOWLEDGE!
INTEGRATING SEX-POSITIVITY:
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• Jimanekia Eborn, Trauma Queen• Ev’Yan Whitney• Dawn Serra• LexxSexDoc• Pleasur.Ed• Scarleteen• Jayda_Kissed• Afrosexology• Dirty South Sex Ed• Sex Ed with B• Shadeen Francis
• Six Minute Sex Ed• Sex Positive Families• Cripping Up Sex• Disability After Dark• BlackQueerLove• FatPositiveTherapy• SexPositiveSexEd, Jenny Waugh• Erica Smith Sex Ed• Pastor Bae• Rev L Sex and Faith• SexEducationASL• TheFatSexTherapist
EXPAND YOUR KNOWLEDGE:
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• Girl Sex 101 by Allison Moon, KD Diamond• Trans+ by Karen Rayne, PhD and Katherine Gonzales, MBA• Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski• Pleasure Activism by Adrienne Maree Brown• Girls and Sex/Boys and Sex by Peggy Orenstein• Sex-Positive Talks to have with Kids by Melissa Carnagey• A Quick and Easy Guide to Sex and Disability by A. Andrews• The Body is not an Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor
EXPAND YOUR KNOWLEDGE:
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JENN [email protected]