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2014
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6/22/2014
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2014
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Helen Yang
-- U of Oregon
Counseling Psychology; Computer Science.
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Josh & Katie Chen
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Ask for God’s provisions
24:12 ─
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Believe in God’s promise
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Be Considerate
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by the end of the DAY
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John Cheung & Esther Kuo
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1. Getting the Love you want (our "text" book, for the class)
2. Making Love Last Forever, Gary Smalley
3. Relationship Rescue, Phillip McGraw (Dr. Phil)
4. Men are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, A practical guide for improving
Communication and Getting what you want in your relationships; John Gray,
Ph.D.
5 Women and their fathers, The sexual and romantic impact of the first man in
your life, Victoria Secunda
6. Boundaries, When to say Yes, When to say No, to take control of your life,
Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. John Townsend
7.When Men Batter Women, New insights into ending abusive relationships,
Neil Jacobson, Ph.D, John Gottman, Ph.D.
8. The verbally abusive relationship, how to recognize it and how to respond;
Patricia Evans
9. Verbal Abuse Survivors speak out, On relationship and recovery, Patricia
Evans
10 Controlling people, How to recognize, understand, and deal with people who
try to control you; Patricia Evans
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Q&A