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Family caregivers are some of our nation’s most dedicated heroes—de-voted men and women who tirelessly attend to loved ones with an illness, disability or limitations of aging. Each November, America celebrates National Family Caregivers Month to recognize and honor family caregivers across our country. From metropolitan brownstones and urban care facilities to rolling farmsteads and rural assisted living centers, family caregivers compassionately assist parents, spouses, extended family, friends and neighbors.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimates that 34 million unpaid caregivers nation-wide care for someone age 18 or older who is dealing with sickness or disability. These millions repre-sent roughly 21 percent of all U.S. households.

“Countless family members in our communities are providing good care for their loved ones,” said Gregg Balbera, president of Right at Home Nassau Suffolk. “It’s an honor for Right at Home to come alongside

these caregivers with utmost respect and practical support. Sometimes we are there to help with hands-on care and other times mainly a listening ear. Family caregivers deserve our appreciation not just in November but 365 days a year.”

Family caregivers come from diverse backgrounds and care circumstances. She may be the granddaughter stopping by her grandparents’ home twice a week with fresh produce, or the son driving 300 miles every other week to take his father to his cancer treat-ments. Fueled by love and sacrifice, the role of a volunteer caregiver knows few limits.

Fortunately, a plethora of national and local organizations and online resources are available to family caregivers. For a local list of care-giver services and organizations, caregivers can contact county and state government agencies including the Health and Human Services Department, Social Services Department and Public Health Department. The social services department of local hospitals and medical clinics or adult daycare cen-ters and faith-based agencies is other

avenue for learning about services and programs available to family caregivers and care recipients.

The following is a summary list of national family caregiver resources:

• Family Caregiver Alliance offers services and publications based on caregiver needs at the local, state and national levels. The group (www.caregiver.org) offers a wealth of helpful information from caregiv-ing tips and fact sheets to personal stories and newsletters.

• Medicare.gov, the official U.S. government site for Medicare, presents easy access to useful information about Medicare and other proven resources to help with family caregiving. The site includes links to partner organizations and essential caregiver information, such as “What type of care is best for your loved one?” and “What every caregiver needs to know.”

The CDC finds that family caregiv-ers report having “difficulty finding time for one’s self (35 percent), managing emotional and physical stress (29 percent), and balancing

work and family responsibilities (29 percent). Dr. Eboni Green of Caregiver support services will address these concerns in a free webinar, “Caregiver Wellness: Power of U!” on Thursday, Nov. 12, at 3 p.m.

In recognition of National Family Caregivers Month, Right at Home Corporate is hosting this webinar featuring Dr. Green’s extensive experience in caregiver health and wellness, particularly caregiver stress, burnout and related family conflicts. Designed to help family and professional caregivers, the webinar will examine how stress and distress impact decision-making abilities of caregivers.

Attendees also will learn the important differences between the concepts of “helping caregiving” and “rescuing caregiving.” The “Caregiver Wellness: U Model” strengthens caregivers’ social, psychological, physical, intellectual, spiritual, occupational and financial well-be-ing and incorporates empowerment and resilience. Visit www.bit.ly/DrGreenRegistration to register.

Visit www.rightathomeli.com or call 516-719-5999 to contact Gregg Balbera for more information.

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North Hempstead Town Supervisor Judi Bosworth spoke at the most recent meeting of the Mineola Golden Age Club on Thursday, Oct. 22, at Mineola Village Hall. Bosworth addressed club members on the latest happenings in the town and some of the programs that the town offers to senior residents. The 47-year-old Mineola Golden Age Club meets every Thursday from September to June, 10 a.m. to 3 p.m., and offers a variety of activities, including bingo, painting classes, arts and crafts, exercise programs, and a monthly book club.

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BY ALLISON [email protected]

On Monday, Sept. 28, 83-year-old Sabina Miller of Great Neck was crowned 2015 Savvy Senior Queen. Seniors from across Long Island and Queens were showered with admiration and appreciation during Association of Generational Experts for Seniors’ (AGES) Sixth Annual Savvy Senior Day at Parker Jewish Institute in New Hyde Park.

Each senior nominated attended the event with family and friends, where they were publicly recognized for their vast accomplishments and contributions within their commu-nities. Among those honored were 70-year-old Jim Alchus of Little Neck who was crowned King.

The king and queen were each awarded gift certificates for profession-al oil painting portraits, courtesy of Bradford Renaissance Portraits. Other senior nominees honored during this year’s Savvy Senior Day were Siroon Shahinian, PhD, also from Great Neck; Stanley Gayda of Maple Pointe Assisted Living in Rockville Centre; Miriam

Epstein, a resident at Atria Glen Cove in Glen Cove; and Rose Collo of Elmont.

“Savvy Senior Day is a special event that gives seniors living within our communities the opportunity to be rec-ognized for all the wonderful accom-plishments and contributions they’ve made and continue to make,” says AGES Chairperson Kevin Lawrence. “Each year, AGES is given the privilege of receiving so many wonderful senior nominations and it is with great honor that we get to celebrate them each year among their families at our annual Savvy Senior Day event.”

Miller, who was crowned 2015 Savvy

Senior Queen by 2014 Savvy Senior Queen Lillian Guadagno of Valley Stream, received her royal title in recog-nition of her community activism and outreach to fellow seniors. Miller’s con-tributions have earned her significant public praise and accolades, including Great Neck Chamber of Commerce’s Jesse M. Markel Community Achievement Award and two Town of North Hempstead’s May W. Newburger Women’s Roll of Honor designations. Among various initiatives Miller has led are cohosting the Town of North Hempstead’s Project Independence Radio Show that broadcasts out of

CW Post, serving on Great Neck’s Project Independence Advisory Board, and serving as a 25-year volunteer at Children’s Learning After School Program (CLASP), a nonprofit Day Care Center in Great Neck.

She is a three-time former Great Neck Lions Club president and served as cochair of the Bachelor Auction Public Access TV Station fundraiser held at the Merchant Marine Academy. In addition, she has been a 12-year volunteer with OmbudService as an advocate of residents, patients and families with administration at Grace Plaza Nursing & Rehabilitation Center in Great Neck. Among her other nota-ble charitable efforts is visiting Easter Island (located halfway between Chile and Tahiti), where she volunteered her personal services and provided eyeglasses to children in need.

“I was so shocked to be named this year’s Savvy Senior Queen,” says Miller. “Every senior attending this year’s Savvy Senior Day was a senior who does great volunteer work and understands that when you do volun-teer work you are helping yourself just

Great Neck’s Sabina Miller Crowned Queen During AGES’ 6th Savvy Senior Day

From left are AGES Chairperson Kevin Lawrence, 2015 Savvy Senior King Jim Alchus of Little Neck, 2015 Savvy Senior Queen Sabina Miller of Great Neck and AGES Savvy Senior Committee Chairperson Rita Medaglio-Barrera.

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ARTHRITIS AND THE THREE BIG MYTHS

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In the 25 years that I have been a practicing rheumatologist (arthri-tis specialist), I have seen many changes and major advancements in my ability to diagnose and treat patients with arthritis. Unfortu-nately what hasn’t changed in all that time are the myths and misconceptions both patients and physicians have about arthritis and its treatment.

So it’s time to clear a few of them up.

Myth #1: You Have Arthritis, And There Is Nothing You Can Do About It. Learn To Live With It And Take Some Advil.Fact:Over the past 20 years, there have been more advancements in the treatment of most forms of arthritis than for any other medical illness. There are more than 120 forms of arthritis, and each form needs its own speci� c diagnosis and therapy. Each individual’s diagnosis will rely on the skill of your physician to take a complete medical history, perform a comprehensive physical exam (not just the joints), and

order appropriate x-rays and diag-nostic tests, which might include, among other diagnostic tools, an MRI, diagnostic ultrasound, or DEXA scan (for osteoporosis) and speci� c laboratory tests.

Most importantly, rheumatolo-gists now have medications and knowledge of dietary treatments to affect the outcome of arthritis. We have symptom-modifying drugs and treatments, which are able to improve the pain of arthritis, lessen discomfort and improve function. We also have disease-modifying drugs, which can actually reverse the arthritis and heal the joint damage caused by arthritis.

Myth #2: You’re Old, So What Did You Expect? Everybody Gets Arthri-tis When They Get Old.Fact:All forms of arthritis are medical illnesses and are no more a part of the normal aging process than are cancer or heart disease. Would anyone say, “You’re old, so you have cancer. What did you expect?” Of course not. Arthritis is a treatable illness, and if caught early, may

even be reversible. No patient should accept the “getting old” explanation of arthritis. In fact, half of all of my patients are under the age of 45. Arthritis affects one out of every seven people in this coun-try. There are hundreds of thou-sands of children under the age of 18 in this country who suffer from arthritis. It is not just a disease of the elderly.

Myth #3: When You Tell Your Doctor Your Knee (Hip, Shoulder, Hand, Etc.) Hurts, Your Next Stop Will Be To An Orthopedist’s Of� ce.Fact: Orthopedists are surgeons. Unless you’re looking to have surgery or a joint replaced, you should see a rheumatologist. All forms of arthritis are medical illnesses. Medical treatment, not surgery, should always be your � rst line of defense. If you had a heart attack, you would see a cardiologist, not a heart transplant surgeon. Orthope-dists do wonderful things to help patients, but they should be your � nal stop, not your � rst, when you have joint pain. Don’t allow your doctor to send you to the orthope-

dist for your � rst evaluation when something hurts.

It is time to forget the myths and get down to the facts:

Most forms of arthritis can betreated.Arthritis should be treated early.Arthritis should be treated by a rheumatologist.

Dr. Richard Blau is a board-cer-ti� ed rheumatologist. He is the Founder and Medical Director of the Arthritis Institute of Long Island, located in Hicksville, NY. He specializes in the diagnosis and the non-surgical treatment of illnesses that cause signi� cant muscle or joint pain. He treats over 200 types of illnesses that affect the joints and muscles, such as rheumatoid arthritis, osteoarthritis, gout, lupus, and tendinitis.

He is the author of many self-help articles, and along with renowned health writer E. A. Tremblay, co-au-thored the best-selling arthritis self-help book, Too Young to Feel Old – The Arthritis Doctor’s 28-day Formula for Pain-Free Living.

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BY JASON [email protected]

If your 65th birthday is around the corner or you’re anxious about the Medicare open enrollment period (closing Dec. 7), it’s a good time to start focusing on your options.

Healthcare choice is becoming a bigger factor in the lives of pre-retirees as the Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act (ACA) &dash; better known as Obamacare &dash; brings significant change to employer-sponsored and individually purchased health plans. Though a separate federal health insurance system with no connection to Obamacare or its online marketplaces, Medicare is going through its own evolution in terms of plan offerings and customer access.

Here’s a basic primer for future Medicare enrollees:

What is Medicare? Medicare is a government-provided health and hospi-talization insurance program for people 65 and older and for some people under age 65 based on disability or particular forms of illness.

What does it cost? Though you’ve likely paid taxes into the Medicare

system your entire career, Medicare isn’t a completely free program; you’ll pay premiums deducted from your Social Security checks for some portions of your benefits. There may be copays and deductibles for certain services. If you have health issues already, it’s a good idea to investigate coverage based on the services you’re likely to need over time.

When do I get to join? You can apply for Medicare through your nearest Social Security office up to three months before your 65th birthday. If you wait longer than three months after your 65th birthday to apply, you may face a late enrollment penalty. If you are already drawing Social Security benefits at age 65, you’ll be automatical-ly enrolled in Medicare.

What does Medicare coverage look like? Keep in mind that you can get many current answers to Medicare questions online or in person at your nearest Social Security office. But as of late 2014, here’s an overview of current Medicare plans:

• Parts A (Hospital) and B (Outpatient). Part A covers inpatient hospital care and Part B covers out-patient medical care and procedures. You’ll hear Parts A and B referred to as “Original Medicare” or “Traditional

Medicare” because if you choose to take this option, you’ll sign up for them as a pair. You’ll get to go to any doctor, hospital or facility that’s enrolled in Medicare and accepting new Medicare patients. You’ll end up paying a premi-um for Part B which can change from year-to-year while Part A is usually free for most people.

• Part C (Medicare Advantage). Call this one-stop shopping for your hospital, outpatient (Part A and B) and usually your prescription coverage (see Part D, below). Medicare Advantage policies are sold by private insurers &dash; Medicare pays their share and you pay your premium. They may include differing assortments of services &dash; vision, prescription drug, dental

or hearing. But keep in mind different Medicare Advantage plans have differ-ent rules for services and can charge different out-of-network costs.

• Part D (Prescription drug coverage). Part D added prescription drug coverage to “Original” Medicare, but as mentioned, may be folded into Medicare Advantage coverage if you elect to take it.

What’s “Medigap” insurance? If you go with “Original” Medicare (Part A and B), you’ll find some gaps in your Medicare coverage. Medigap is the nickname for Medicare Supplement Insurance, which you purchase private-ly. Some employers and unions offer

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Medigap coverage to retirees, and these plans can vary widely in terms of cost, coverage and state participation. Also, if you’re on Medicare Advantage, it’s unlikely you’ll need separate Medigap coverage, but it’s important to check.

What if you plan to keep working with company health benefits after you turn 65? Confer with your financial advisor, human resources department and Medicare before you make any decisions, but you may qualify for a special enrollment period as a result. You’ll need to coordinate with your spouse as well if you share any kind of health coverage as part of coordinating your overall retirement picture. People who continue to work past 65 may enroll in Part A but bypass Part B and D if they’re already on a company plan.

Are your doctors on the plan? You’ve probably have some experience with this from checking to see whether your physicians are in-network with whatever health insurance you currently carry. You’ll continue to do this on Medicare Advantage. Check availability of doctors and costs on any plan you’re considering, particularly out-of-network costs.

What can your state do for you? If you find you’re not getting answers on specific Medicare subjects from Medicare (www.medicare.gov) itself, your employer, your union, your

financial advisor or Social Security, your state is a participant in the State Health Insurance Assistance Program or SHIP. SHIP is a national program that offers one-on-one counseling and assistance on Medicare to individuals and their families.

What’s the best way to tie all this stuff together? Stop looking at your health, investment, retirement and tax issues separately. Medicare is a critical piece of the healthcare affordability puzzle, but it’s important to consider choices &dash; and potential worst-case scenarios &dash; within the scope of your broader retirement plan. If you’ve never sat down with a financial planner and have five years or more until you plan to retire, find one and have a broad discussion about where you stand on health, retirement and estate issues. To find a qualified planner in your community, start with solid recommendations from friends and family and consult organizations like the Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards or the Association for Financial Counseling Planning and Education (www.members.afcpe.org/search).

Bottom line: Whether you plan to retire at 65 or stay in your career as long as possible, it’s important to under-stand Medicare and how it can work for you.

Jason Alderman directs Visa’s financial education programs.

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BY MAUREEN [email protected]

The Westbury Senior Center, located at 360 Post Ave. in Westbury, is a wel-coming senior lifestyle organization serving those aged 60 and over who reside in Westbury, Old Westbury, New Cassel, the Westbury School District and its surrounding communities.

Programs that promote healthy bod-ies and minds are offered to encourage our seniors to sustain a productive and satisfying lifestyle. A well-balanced, hot lunch prepared on-site is served five days per week. Exercise classes are designed to help maintain a healthy level of fitness and mental awareness, while arts and discussion groups further enrich artistic expression and social contact. Curb-to-curb bus transportation is available via the cen-ter’s own bus. Successful aging at the Westbury Senior Center is continually encouraged through volunteer oppor-tunities, meaningful socialization and a family-like environment that is so vital to everyone’s wellbeing.

The ACES (Adult Cultural and Educational Studies) Winter Semester registration will be held on Tuesday, Jan. 5, from 8:30 a.m. to 2 p.m. Classes will begin Thursday, Jan. 7. Brochures

can be picked up at the center in late December. If you would like more information, call 516-334-5886.

Also, stop by the center’s holiday gift shop through Dec. 18, weekdays from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. to pick up last-minute holiday gifts.

Maureen Droge is the executive director of the Westbury Senior Center.

Westbury Senior Center News

Pawel Jakubiec Receives Distinction AwardPawel Jakubiec, a senior physical

therapist of Parker Jewish Institute for Health Care and Rehabilitation, is the recipient of the esteemed and coveted 2015 LeadingAge New York Long Term Care Employee of Distinction Award. The Employee of Distinction Award recognizes the extraordinary efforts of front line staff such as registered nurs-es, licensed practical nurses, physical therapists, certified nursing assistants and many others who are the face of New York’s nonprofit nursing homes, adult care facilities and other senior

living and service providers.Of the thousands of employees

in LeadingAge New York’s member organizations, only 18 are chosen for this award each year. Jakubiec was honored for his enthusiasm, positive attitude and patience he often displays whilst caring for his patients.

According to President & CEO of Parker Jewish Institute Michael N. Rosenblut, “Pawel is an invaluable

member of our team, who lives the Parker mission to provide high caliber compassionate health care, deeply.”

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Pictured: Assemblymen Ed Braun-stein, Pawel Jakubiec, Kristen Myers of LeadingAge New York and Presi-dent/CEO of Parker Jewish Institute Michael N. Rosenblut.

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BY MARLA [email protected]

As parents age and require more care, many families are facing intense conflicts with each other. Fighting be-tween parents and their adult children as well as disagreements between siblings often occur over how to han-dle such issues as health care needs, living arrangements, asset protection and inheritance issues. This has led to a steady increase in costly and time consuming legal intervention with lasting damage to the family.

“With one quarter of our clients requiring litigation last year, 90 percent of those disputes could have been resolved by mediation, reducing the family’s legal fees by about 75 percent while preserving relationships,” said Melissa Negrin-Wiener, elder law attor-ney, mediator and partner at Genser Dubow Genser & Cona (GDGC).

Forty percent of caretakers have a major conflict with siblings,” said Janet Mitchell, a lawyer and psychol-ogist who co-founded the National Eldercare Mediator Network. It had 30 members when it formed in 2004; now it has 110.

For example, a 63 year old man re-tained GDGC to bring a guardianship

proceeding in court to protect his mother’s financial security. She had been spending huge sums of money on frivolous things and he was fearful she would not have enough money left to pay for her living expenses or care. After several months in court while working with an elder law attorney, he was ultimately given full transparency of financial statements, but his mother was bitter about being served with legal papers in a proceeding that ultimately cost tens of thousands of dollars. Instead of litigation, a mediator could have done the job for a few thousand dollars and preserved the family relationship.

Mediators are trained as neutral third parties who help families define the issues and reach a mutually agreeable settlement.

“Elder law attorneys can be the best mediators for seniors and their families because they understand the needs and issues and have experience coun-seling families during traditional elder law discussions,” said Negrin-Wiener.

For example, if a family is arguing over money and how to pay for their loved one’s care, an elder law me-diator can address asset protection options and advance directives.

While mediation can work in many

elder care disputes, it’s important to find the right person.

When hiring a mediator, Negrin-Wiener recommends asking the following questions:

• What is your training and experi-ence in elder care mediation?

• What types of family crises have you handled?

• What is your experience handling cases similar to mine?

• How many guardianship cases have you handled?

• How would you encourage family members to get involved in mediation?

• What is your fee for mediation?• What is included in your media-

tion services and what isn’t?• What results have you had mediat-

ing elder care issues?Melissa Negrin-Wiener is an

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