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Ways to Get that First Kiss

Men and women alike have plenty of horror stories to tell about their very first kiss. Bythe time we reach the dating scene, though, were well past the initial awkwardness of

two peoples lips touching, and the main worries are what her reaction will be and if itsthe right moment. Trust your gut. Be aware of her body language and analyze your own

desires. Chances are, youll know eactly when to kiss her. !ow heres how to do it.

1. Man up

Boys shuffle their feet and avoid eye contact before darting in for a surprise kiss. Men

look into a womans eyes, knows she wants him as much as he wants her, and takes that

little risk to lean in and kiss her on the lips. Man up. "omen dont want a boy, too timid

and unsure to get what he wants.

2. Watch her eyes

#ne of the telltale signs of a woman waiting to be kissed is if she is glancing from your

eyes to your lips. The moment a woman realizes she wants to kiss a man, she becomes

fascinated with his lips and entranced by his eyes. $er eyes will dart from each of youreyes to your lips and back again, in a triangular shape. "atch for the signs. %oull know

when.

3. Hold her hand

&issing is a very intimate form of touch. To ease that first contact, make sure you have

touched her hand or shoulder sometime before or during conversation or flirtation. 'f you

havent touched her much yet, take her hand before looking up into her eyes. %ou dontneed to do anything special with that hand( )ust hold it softly, and then look her in theeye. %oull be able to tell if she wants it.

4. Start with a cheek kiss

'f cuddling and closeness has preceded the kissing moment, placing a kiss on her cheek

or temple is a good way to ease into the more intimate mouth kiss. Because a kiss on thecheek is seen as a casual and adorable act, it will lighten the mood and help her rela, too.

'ts a display of gentleness and will show her that you are into her specifically, not )ust

into what might happen later on.

5. Whisper in her ear.*ike kissing her on the cheek, a +uiet whisper in her ear will tell her in a gentle, romantic

way that you want to kiss her more intimately. %ou dont have to say anything

particularly romantic during the whisper( in fact, you dont actually have to say anythingat all. imple placing your mouth close to her ear and breathing softly will, if shes into it,

send shivers up her spine and make her want that kiss as much as you do.

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The thing that stops most men from leaning in for that first taste of sweetness is the fear

that once re)ected, they will be forever in the doghouse. -or most women, though, this

isnt how it works. 'f your lips land on a womans cheek the first time you lean in to kissher, take it in stride. ead her reaction. 's she disgusted or )ust unsure for the moment/

#ften times, if she doesnt ecuse herself right then and there, she will be ready for your

first kiss )ust a little while later. tick around, continue being gentle and loving, listeningattentively and accustoming her to being touched.

emember, always, that a kiss, while )ust the first step in what will hopefully be a very

eciting night, is a very intimate action. 0n evening of flirting and casual touching will

help ease the transition to suddenly touching lips, but it will always be a little nervewracking. 'snt that what makes it thrilling in the first place/ 1ase your lady into being

touched by you, make sure she knows you can and want to be gentle with her, and dont

get scared away if shes not +uite ready the first time you lean in.