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“We are being judged by a new yardstick; not just how smart we are, or by our training and expertise, but also how well we handle ourselves and each other.” Daniel Goleman, Ph.D. Working with Emotional Intelligence. What is Emotional Intelligence?. - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
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“We are being judged by a new yardstick; not just how smart we are, or by our training and expertise, but also how well we handle ourselves and each other.”
Daniel Goleman, Ph.D.Working with
Emotional Intelligence
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What is Emotional Intelligence?
Emotional intelligence is not about being nice all the time.• It is about being honest.
Emotional intelligence is not about being “touchy-feely.”• It is about being aware of your feelings, and those of others.
Emotional intelligence is not about being emotional.• It is about being smart with your emotions.
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Today’s Training Will Help You• Understand emotional intelligence and why it is important to personal and professional success.
• Recognize five competencies you can work on to increase your level of emotional intelligence.
• Listen to and employ your emotions for better decision making.
• Show you care, and build trust by displaying sensitivity and concern.
• Use your energy and enthusiasm to motivate others.
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Personal Benefits ofEmotional Intelligence
• Greater career success
• Stronger personal relationships
• Increased optimism and confidence
• Better health
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Professional Benefits ofEmotional Intelligence
• Effective leadership skills
• Improved communication
• Less workplace conflict
• Better problem solving skills
• Increased likelihood of promotion
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The Five Essential Competencies of Emotional Intelligence
• Self-Awareness
• Self-Regulation
• Self-Motivation
• Empathy
• Effective Relationships
Relate to Ourselves
Relate to Others
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“If you understand your own feelings you get a really great handle on how you’re going to interact and perform with others…
So one of the first startingpoints is, ‘what’s going oninside of me?’”
Chuck WolfePresident,
C. J. Wolfe Associates, LLC
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Practicing Self-Awareness:
• Awareness of our own emotional states is the foundation of all the E.I. skills.
• Learn to “tune-in” to your emotions – they can give you valid information about your responses to stressful situations.
• Recognize the importance of emotions even in “technical” fields.
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“If we are in a heightened state of agitation or anger we cannot make good decisions, we cannot reason well.”
Christine CasperCommunication, Motivation
& Management Inc.
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Practicing Self-Regulation:
• Accept responsibility for choosing your own emotional responses.
• Learn to “reframe” stressful situations into ones that are challenging.
• Be aware of, and learn to manage, your own emotional “triggers.”
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“High performers are those who are able to see with some clarity to what degree they are responsible for a setback and to what degree it may be circumstance or other people, and as a result they areable to be more persistent.”
Dr. J.P. Pawliw-FryCo-Director,
Inst. For Health & Human Potential
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Practicing Self-Motivation:
• Recognize that emotions affect your performance.
• Identify your “explanatory style.” When a setback strikes, resist asking “what’s wrong with me?” Instead, ask “what can I fix?”
• Work to achieve your “flow state,” being in the moment with work tasks.
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“If people will stop for a moment and put themselves in another person’s shoes…it will help them modify their own behavior. It will help them develop relationshipswith those people.”
Darryl Grigg, Ed.D.Co-Developer,
American Express Emotional Competence Program
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Practicing Empathy:
• Realize that emotions impact such measurable goals as productivity and safety.
• Empathy means recognizing, and responding appropriately to, the emotions of others.
• By expressing empathy, you also create empathy in others.
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"And so there's a real pay-off. The people who will become the leaders, the people who will become the star performers, are the ones who have the strengths in the key emotional intelligence abilities."
Daniel Goleman, Ph.D.Founder,
Emotional Intelligence Services
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Creating Effective Relationships:
Employ all your emotional competencies – awareness, regulation, motivation, and empathy – to:
• Influence and persuade others.
• Build consensus and support for team goals.
• Motivate and inspire yourself and others to achieve those goals.
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