why i act the way i do and why others act the way they...
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Why I Act the Way I Do and
Why Others Act the Way They Do
William H. Swiggart, MS
Assistant in Medicine
Vanderbilt Department of Medicine
Co-Director, Center for Professional Health
Vanderbilt University Medical Center
Nashville, TN
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Disclosure
I have no financial relationships to disclose.
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Develop a greater awareness and knowledge of
the role of the family in effective leadership and
relationships with patients and colleagues.
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at Vanderbilt University Medical Center, 2017. © All rights reserved.
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► Recognize the influence of “family role” in others.
► Evaluate the influence of your “family role” in your specialty choice and personal triggers.
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We judge ourselves by our motives,
others judge us by our behavior. - AA quote
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“Truth without compassion is
brutality.” - Antero Alli
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How did you decide to go into medicine?
Have you experienced brutal truth aimed at you or
others?
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It is important to know your
triggers that may have begun in
your family of origin and to
realize that others have triggers
that began in their family of origin.
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MD
Dad Mom
GF GM GF GM
Hero
Golden Child
No Limits
Over-involved
Permissive
Aloof
Distant
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See handout
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How has your family job description influenced your specialty choice?
How has your family job description influenced your triggers?
When under stress do you speed up or slow down?
Are you an introvert or extrovert?
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► Specific and clear
► Something you can
count
► Behavior not attitude
► Plan / Timetable
► What are your personal
barriers?
► Refer to handout
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I intend to change the following:
Change: I plan to keep track of when someone
breaks one of my family rules.
Plan / Timetable: I will start Monday morning.
Barriers To Success: I am busy and will not take
the time to record.
Intend to Change
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The No Asshole Rule: Building a Civilized Workplace
and Surviving One That Isn’t. Robert I. Sutton. Business
Plus, 2010. ISBN: 9780759518018
The Relationship Cure: A Five-Step Guide…Dr. John
Gottman and Joan DeClaire. Three Rivers Press, 2002.
ISBN: 0609809539
Emotional Intelligence. Daniel Goleman. Bantam Dell, a
division of Random House, Inc., 1994. eISBN: 978-0-
553-90320-1
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Vanderbilt Center
for
Professional Health
Professional Development Courses
www.mc.vanderbilt.edu/cph
Developed by: William H. Swiggart, MS. Center for Professional Health
at Vanderbilt University Medical Center, 2017. © All rights reserved.
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Developed by: William H. Swiggart, MS. Center for Professional Health
at Vanderbilt University Medical Center, 2017. © All rights reserved.