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    Conflict Management

    Training Program

    By Yousuf Zahid [email protected]

    April 2012

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    Peace is not absence of conflict,

    it is the ability to handle conflict by peaceful means.

    Ronald Reagan

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    Every now and again, you work with someonewho rubs you the wrong way.They are hard to work with.They disagree with everything you say.They do things very differently to you.If youre not careful, these frustrationscan build into outright conflict,or a cold warwhere you avoid each other as much as possible.Learn why people are they way they are,how to respect andHow to positively respond to conflicts and differences whenthey arise.

    Lets begin our journey to understand and realize thatThe conflicts can live elsewhere.value the differences among people.its a wonderful world after all.

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    What are conflicts?

    A situation in which someone

    believes that his or her own

    needs have been denied.

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    Whos involved?

    Inevitable whenever two or more people interact

    Two or more individuals

    Two or more groups An individual and a group

    Within an individual

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    Why do they occur?

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    The causes

    Task related External influences

    Emotional triggers

    Perceptive behavior

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    The causes

    Unclear definitions of role responsibility Who, what, how and when

    Conflict of interest

    Personal and organizational goals at odds

    Lack of resources

    Competition for money, time and materials

    Entanglement of interpersonal relationships

    Personalities, personal issues and prejudices

    Leadership, work styles, cultural and gender issues

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    The consequences

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    Negative repercussions

    Disagreements due to differences inpoints of view, ideology or unhealthy competition

    Sub-optimization Waste of time and resources

    Mental health concerns

    Decrease in productivity

    Members leave organization

    Violence

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    Negative repercussions

    Self interests, needless feuds, superiority contestsand larger goals compromised

    Vision, mission and values get shelved

    Frustration, stress, anxiety and depression settle in

    Demotivation and dysfunctional teams are evident

    Absenteeism enters

    Deviant behavior surfaces

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    Conflict resolutionstrategies

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    How to tackle em?

    Ways to intervene and break the barriersIts important to be a cool-cucumber and diffuse

    Discussion Written communication

    Mediation

    Compromise - give and take Voting

    No-nonsense approach

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    How to tackle em?

    Before intervening, go through these steps

    Assess the situation - get information

    Options how to put things back on trackPerspective - of conflicting parties

    Demeanor - be firm and assertive

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    Strategyshortcomings

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    Disadvantages of conflict resolution

    More harm than good, if conflict fails to get resolvedPersonalities involved play a critical role here

    Escalation - Refusal to budge from stance Winners and losers - Resentment and demotivation

    Manipulation - mistrust and non-cooperation

    Limited effect - due to compromise

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    A checklist for you

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    What should you do if you run into aconflict?

    Whether conflict is with staff, peers or management

    Approach conflict with an open mind

    Consider what might have caused the conflict Be respectful of differences

    Try to cut the conflict off in its early stages

    Listen carefully Be mindful of your language

    Ask for help

    Be sure the problem is resolved

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    But

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    Conflicts can also be a good thing

    Helps avoid the tendency toward group think Key is to manage conflict effectively

    Manage it to serve as a catalyst to

    organizational improvement

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    Conflicts can also be a good thing

    Encourages new thinking - points of view and ideas Raises questions - issue based for problem solving

    Builds relationships - listen and learn

    Opens minds - creativity and innovation

    Beats stagnation - avoids status quo and conflicts

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    Final word

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    Bottom line

    Avoid these clichs

    Its not my job I dont have time Ask her - ask him I dont know Lets see - well see

    Probably - maybe Why not? Cant help you there No, sorry

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    One more thing

    The goal of organizational leadershipis not to eliminate conflict, but to use it.

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    Remember

    When dealing with conflict in an organization,remember to address the issue, not the people.

    And last but not the least;keep your emotions under control.

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    The peak efficiency of knowledge and strategy

    is to make conflict unnecessary.

    Sun Tzu

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