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Table of Contents
Homeschooling High School to the Glory of God .................................. Error! Bookmark not defined. Courtship, Marriage, & The Christian Family Course Requirements ........................................................... 5
Courtship, Marriage, & The Christian Family Assignments Check-Off ....................................................... 7
Courtship, Marriage, & The Christian Family Hours Check-Off ........... Error! Bookmark not defined. Welcome to God’s Girls ............................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Directions for God’s Girls Assignments .................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Memorize I Thessalonians 4:1-12 ..................................................................................................................... 12
Passion & Purity Book Review ........................................................................................................................... 14
Interview Seven Married Couples..................................................................................................................... 15
Outline of my Interview Article/Essay ........................................................................................................... 19
When God Writes Your Love Story Book Review ................................................................................................ 22
Memorize I Thessalonians 4:1-12 ................................................................ Error! Bookmark not defined. Sex is Not the Problem (Lust is) Book Review ............................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Memorize I Thessalonians 4:1-12 ................................................................ Error! Bookmark not defined. Outline for Essay, “How to Stay Pure in an Impure World” ................. Error! Bookmark not defined. Struggles & Worries I Face ........................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Of Knights and Fair Maidens Book Review .................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. I Kissed Dating Goodbye Book Review............................................................ Error! Bookmark not defined. Dating with Integrity Book Review .................................................................. Error! Bookmark not defined. Memorize I Thessalonians 4:1-12 ................................................................ Error! Bookmark not defined. Christmas Traditions Down the Road ........................................................ Error! Bookmark not defined. My Parents’ View of a Purposeful Pathway to Marriage .......................... Error! Bookmark not defined. My View of a Purposeful Pathway to Marriage ......................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. For Better or Best: Understanding Your Husband Book Review ...................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Memorize I Thessalonians 4:1-12 ................................................................ Error! Bookmark not defined. Passages on Being a Godly Wife and Summaries ..................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Responsibilities of a Wife ............................................................................. Error! Bookmark not defined. Photograph of My Booklet for Children: ................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. “How to be a Good Wife and Mommy” ................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Creative Counterpart Book Review .................................................................. Error! Bookmark not defined.
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God’s Girls Homemaking Skills Checklist ................................................. Error! Bookmark not defined. Memorize I Thessalonians 4:1-12 ................................................................ Error! Bookmark not defined. Outline of My Essay: “How to Be a Good Wife” .................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Husband Inner Quality Chart ...................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. The Christian Family Book Review ................................................................ Error! Bookmark not defined. Exploring the Christian Family .................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Memorize I Thessalonians 4:1-12 ................................................................ Error! Bookmark not defined. Outline for my Essay, “A Christian Family is…” ..................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Home Evaluation ........................................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Home Evaluation ........................................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Pass the Torch ................................................................................................ Error! Bookmark not defined. L’Abri Book Review ...................................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Family Interviews ........................................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Home Evaluation ........................................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Memorize I Thessalonians 4:1-12 ................................................................ Error! Bookmark not defined. Home Evaluation ........................................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Seeking God Together .................................................................................. Error! Bookmark not defined. Families I Admire .......................................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Family Nights ................................................................................................. Error! Bookmark not defined. Family Vacation .............................................................................................. Error! Bookmark not defined. My Hopes & Dreams for My Future Family ............................................. Error! Bookmark not defined. Home Evaluation ........................................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. It Takes a Gentleman & A Lady Book Review............................................. Error! Bookmark not defined. Home Evaluation ........................................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. My Evaluation of Our Family ...................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Memorize I Thessalonians 4:1-12 ................................................................ Error! Bookmark not defined. My Standards of Behavior with Guys ......................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. My Standards for Conversations with Other Girls ................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. EExxttrraa HHeellppss ffoorr SSttuuddyyiinngg GGoodd’’ss WWoorrdd ....................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined.
Bible Study Worksheet .................................................................................. Error! Bookmark not defined. What is Orthodox Christianity? ................................................................... Error! Bookmark not defined. Powerline Productions ....................................................................................................................................... 23
About the Author ............................................................................................................................................... 28
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Courtship, Marriage, & The Christian Family Course Requirements
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The Holy Bible
God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage Bible Study by Pastor Mike & Meredith Curtis, Katie Beth Curtis & Zack Nolette
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Passion and Purity by Elisabeth Elliot
When God Writes Your Love Story by Eric & Leslie Ludy
Sex is Not the Problem (Lust Is): Sexual Purity in a Lust-Saturated World by Josh Harris
For Better or Best by Gary Smalley
Creative Counterpart by Linda Dillow
The Christian Family by Larry Christenson
L’Abri by Edith Schaeffer
It Takes a Gentleman and A Lady by Eric Ludy
Choose one of the following Books on Courtship:
Of Knights and Fair Maidens by Jeff and Danielle Myers
I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Josh Harris
Passion and Purity by Elisabeth Elliot
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• Memorize I Thessalonians 4:1-12 • Make up an interview about marriage. Interview 7 couples. Type up quotes from the
interview and write an article/essay based on interview • Write an essay entitled “How to Stay Pure in an Impure World”
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• Write a paragraph sharing your parent’s view of dating and courtship. Then write a paragraph sharing your own view
• Write an essay entitled “How to Be a Good Wife” • Write an essay entitled “A Christian Family is…” • Look up passages on being a husband. Make a list of your responsibilities. Share with
parents • Make a booklet for young children (ages 6-10) on “How to be a Good Wife & Mommy” • Make a list of inner qualities to look for in a wife. Beside each quality, list ways to find
evidence of that quality in action, speech, service, behavior and attitudes • Plan a family devotion/Bible study time • Plan a family night • Plan a family vacation • Fill out six home evaluations • Interview two Family • Fill out various worksheets on family, marriage, and courtship • Make a list of standards of behavior for yourself with guyss. Make a list of standards of
conversation with other girls
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To get a C grade, complete all work like it is just an assignment. Demonstrate only a small amount of growth in the Lord.
To get an A grade, complete all work cheerfully and with excellence. Demonstrate growth in Jesus in attitude, actions, service and speech.
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Courtship, Marriage, & The Christian Family Assignments Check-Off
Assignments Comp. Time took
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Meet with Mom Write I Thessalonians 4:1-12 Three Times God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage lesson #1 Read Passion and Purity Complete Book Review Interview 7 Marriage Couples Type up Quotes from Interviews Meet with Mom Write an Article/Essay about Marriage Based on Interviews God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage lesson #2 Meet with Mom God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage lesson #3 Read When God Writes Your Love Story Complete Book Review
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Meet with Mom Write I Thessalonians 4:1-12 Three Times God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage lesson #4 Meet with Mom God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage lesson #5 Complete Give Advice Worksheet Meet with Mom God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage lesson #6 Read Sex is Not the Problem (Lust Is) Complete Book Review
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Meet with Mom Write I Thessalonians 4:1-12 Three Times God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage lesson #7 Write an Essay on How to Stay Pure in an Impure World Meet with Mom God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage lesson #8 Complete Temptations I Face Worksheet
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Meet with Mom God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage lesson #9 Read Of Knights and Fair Maidens or I Kissed Dating Goodbye or Dating with Integrity Complete Book Review
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Meet with Mom Write I Thessalonians 4:1-12 Three Times God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage lesson #10 Christmas Traditions Down the Road Worksheet Meet with Mom Write a Paragraph on Your Parents’ View of Finding a Husband Write a Paragraph on Own View of Finding a Husband Meet with Mom God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage lesson #11 Read For Better or Best Complete Book Review
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Meet with Mom Write I Thessalonians 4:1-12 Three Times God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage lesson #12 Look up Passages on being a Godly Wife & Write Summaries List Responsibilities of a Husband Meet with Mom God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage lesson #13 Make Booklet, “How to Be a Good Wife & Mommy Meet with Mom Read Creative Counterpart Complete Book Review Complete God’s Girls Homemaking Skills Checklist
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Meet with Mom Write I Thessalonians 4:1-12 Three Times Write an Essay, “How to be a Good Wife” Meet with Mom Complete Husband Inner Quality Chart Meet with Mom Read The Christian Family Complete Book Review
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Meet with Mom Write I Thessalonians 4:1-12 Three Times Write an Essay, “A Christian Family is…” Complete Home Evaluation Meet with Mom Read Pass the Torch Meet with Mom Complete Two Family Interviews Complete Home Evaluation Read L’Abri Complete Book Review
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Meet with Mom Write I Thessalonians 4:1-12 Three Times Complete Home Evaluation Complete Seeking God Together Worksheet Complete Families I Admire Worksheet Meet with Mom Complete Family Night Worksheet Plan and Host a Family Night Complete Family Vacation Worksheet Complete My Hopes & Dreams for My Future Family Worksheet Complete Home Evaluation Meet with Mom Read It Takes a Gentleman and A Lady Complete Book Review Complete Home Evaluation
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Meet with Mom Write I Thessalonians 4:1-12 Three Times Make a List of Standards of Behavior with Guys Make a List of Standards of Conversation with other Girls Meet with Mom
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Memorize I Thessalonians 4:1-12
Passion & Purity Book Report Sheet
Interview Couples, Questions, & Essay Outline
When God Writes Your Love Story Book Review
God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage Bible Study
(Meet with Mom weekly)
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Week One Meet with Mom
Pass out books and Bible study.
Go Over Plan for Year
• September through December: Relationships & Purity • January through February: Marriage • March through April: The Christian Family • May: Preparation
List Dreams that young people have for the future on a white board. Everyone share their own unique dreams too.
• Discuss how these dreams are opportunities for us to trust God • Discuss how these dreams can lead us to trip and fall into satan’s traps
Prayer Focus:
• Year Ahead • Mother/Daughter Relationship • Personal Purity • Heart to Learn & Grow
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Week One Home
Memorize I Thessalonians 4:1-12
Write I Thessalonians 4:1-12 three times
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Passion & Purity Book Review
By Elisabeth Elliot
Describe Elisabeth and Jim’s relationship?
What made their relationship so unusual compared to other relationships that you are aware of?
How are men and women different according to Elisabeth?
What did you learn in this book?
What plans have you made for yourself in the area of dating, courtship, & marriage?
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Interview Seven Married Couples
You are going to start off the year by doing some research. You are going to interview married couples about marriage. Think of some questions you want to know the answer to and write them down (at least seven). Next, ask those seven questions to the seven different couples you have chosen. Try to get couples in different seasons of life.
What did you learn about marriage from these interviews? What conclusions have you drawn? Which conclusions would benefit others? After you gather all your answers, you will write an article based on the interview. Be sure to use quotes from the people you interview.
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Week Two Meet with Mom
Recite I Thessalonians 4:1-12
Go over Any Questions/Confusion/Disagreements with Material covered this week.
Discuss God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage 1: Live for Jesus
• Describe what people are like before Jesus rescues them (pg. 25) • What should we do with our freedom (pg. 28) • Have you repented and given your life to Jesus? Describe your conversion experience. (pg.
31-32) • Name people in your life that pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace? Do you hang out
with them? (pg. 34)
Discuss Passion and Purity by Elisabeth Eliot
• What was your favorite thing about the book? • What did the Lord teach you through this book? • What did you agree with? • What did you disagree with? • How would you like to apply principles in this book to your personal life?
Just for Fun: Find a Bible verse or passage to share with the following people.
• Jessica is a news anchor. The disasters going on around the world make her feel depressed. • Fred loves God, but his friends all make fun of him. • Stan is offered money to do a job for his boss. “Let’s keep this off the books” he says and
slips him $500.00.” I don’t want you to report this as income. Let’s keep it under the table. • Jon feels distant from God. He stopped reading the Bible and says that it’s boring. • Sally is wondering if God really exists. He never seems to answer her prayers. • Joe is exhausted from going to bed in the middle of the night and having to wake up early to
do school. He plays video games until three in the morning. • Jeff thinks he’ll go to Heaven because he’s a good person. • Sally doesn’t think anyone likes her. She sits by herself if she is with a group of people. • Ellen is good friends with Helen and Terri, but Helen doesn’t like Terri. She wants Ellen to
stop being friends with Terri. • Jason and his brother, Jonah, are always arguing with one another.
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Prayer Focus:
• Passion for Jesus • Friends who love Jesus
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Week Two Home
Outline of my Interview Article/Essay
If you need directions for writing an essay, go back to the “Directions for God’s Girls Assignments” in the beginning of the book and read the section on essays or talk to you Mom/Dad/Teacher.
You are going to be sifting through what you have learned from your interviews with various couples and drawing some conclusions. Use the Bible to evaluate advice that couples shared with you.
Before you begin your article/essay, think about your reader. Pretend you are writing for a Christian magazine on marriage. Your readers, or audience, will be young Christian couples. I encourage you to share this essay with young couples when you are finished.
Also, think about what you want to say to your reader/audience. What is the message you want to impart? Try to write it down in one sentence.
Now take your message in a nutshell and turn it into a thesis statement. You have a message that you want to convince, or prove, to young couples. How will you prove it? With quotes from these couples you interviewed, as well as Bible verses. Write a thesis statement that will guide your article.
My Audience: Young Married Couples
My Message in a Nutshell:
My Thesis Statement:
I. My Introduction
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V. My Fourth Point = (you may not have a 4th point!)
VI. My Conclusion
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Week Three Meet with Mom
Recite I Thessalonians 4:1-12
Go over Any Questions/Confusion/Disagreements with Material covered this week.
Discuss God’s Girls Talk about Guys, Virtue, & Marriage 2: God’s Blueprint for Purity & Love
• What does it mean to control your body in a way that is holy and honorable? (pg. 43) • How does passionate lust take advantage of our brothers in the Lord (pg. 43) • What does a holy life look like? (pg. 46) • Compare your life to the holy life you described above. (pg. 47) • How has the Lord taught you to love your brothers and sisters in Christ? (pg. 48)
Read Interview Articles Aloud
Prayer Focus:
• Purity • Ask God to teach you to love your brothers and sisters in Christ
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Week Three Home
When God Writes Your Love Story Book Review
By Eric & Leslie Ludy
Describe how God is the Author of Romance.
What can make us focus on rules, rather than relationship?
How can we grow in our relationship with Jesus so we can trust Him with our future?
What is technical virginity?
How can we gain a backbone in the midst of a spineless generation?
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About the Author
Meredith Curtis, a pastor’s wife and homeschooling mom of five children, leads worship, mentors ladies, and, sometimes, even cooks dinner. Her passion is to equip people to love Jesus, raise godly children, and change the world around them with the power of the Gospel. “Lives are changed in the context of relationships,” Meredith often says, as well as, “Be a world changer! Raise world changers!” She enjoys speaking to small and large groups.
All inquiries can be made to the author, Meredith Curtis, through email: [email protected] or contact her through her websites: joyfulandsuccessfulhomeschooling.com/ meredithcurtis.com/ finishwellcon.com/ powerlineprod.com/
Meredith is the author of several books. Joyful and Successful Homeschooling Seven R’s of Homeschooling Quick & EZ Unit Study Fun Unlocking the Mysteries of Homeschooling High School (with Laura Nolette) Celebrate Thanksgiving Teaching Writing in High School with Classes You Can Use Teaching Literature in High School with Classes You Can Use HIS Story of the 20th Century HIS Story of the 20th Century for Little Folks Meredith is the author of several cozy mysteries: The Maggie King Mysteries series. Drug Dealers Deadly Disguise Hurricanes Can Be Deadly Legend of the Candy Cane Murder Wash, Dry, Cut, & Die War of the Roses Mystery Murder in the Mountains Meredith is the author of several Bible studies. Lovely to Behold A Wise Woman Builds Jesus, Fill My Heart & Home Welcome Inn: Practicing the Art of Hospitality in Jesus’’ Name Friends to the End God’s Girls Beauty Secrets (with Sarah Jeffords) God’s Girls Friends to the End (with Katie-Beth Nolette & Sarah Jeffords)
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God’s Girls Talk about Boys, Dating, Courtship, & Marriage Meredith is the author of several unit studies, timelines, and cookbooks. Celebrate Christmas in Colonial America Celebrate Christmas with Cookies Travel to London Celebrate Thanksgiving with the Pilgrims American History Cookbook Ancient History Cookbook 20th Century Cookbook (with Laura Nolette) 20th Century Timeline (with Laura Nolette) American History Timeline (with Laura Nolette) Ancient History Timeline (with Laura Nolette) Let’s Have Our Own Medieval Banquet (with Laura Nolette) Let’s Have Our Archaeological Dig Let’s Have Our Own Olympic Games
Meredith is the author of several high school classes. American Literature and Research British Literature and Writing Who Dun It: Murder Mystery Literature & Writing Communication 101: Essays and Speeches Foundations of Western Literature Economics, Finances, and Business Government: God’s Blueprint/Man’s Agenda Worldview 101: Understand the Times New Testament Survey Old Testament Survey Great Commission Career Choices and The College Decision Real Men 101: Godly Manhood Real Men 102: Freedom, Courtship, Marriage, and Family Real Men 103: Leadership Real Men 101: Pass the Torch God’s Girls 101: Grow in Christ God’s Girls 102: Virtuous Womanhood God’s Girls 103: Courtship, Marriage, and the Christian Family God’s Girls 104: Motherhood God’s Girls 105: Homemaking God’s Girls 106: Friendship, Hospitality, and Celebrations God’s Girls 107: How to Homeschool And more…