ic chapter 10 relationships part 4 (family)
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INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION
CHAPTER TEN INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS- FAMILY
PREVIEW:
DEFINITION OF FAMILY MODELS OF FAMILIES IMPROVE COMMUNICATION TYPES OF MARRIED COUPLES SIBLINGS
PRINCIPLES OF RELATIONSHIPS
FAMILY
FAMILIES CAN BE DEFINED CATEGORICALLY (EXPERT’S LANGUAGE)
OR BY TYPE
FAMILY-DEFINITION (CATEGORICAL)
SELF-DEFINED UNIT
MADE UP OF ANY NUMBER OF PERSONS
WHO LIVE OR HAVE LIVED IN RELATIONSHIP WITH ONE ANOTHER OVER TIME
IN A COMMON LIVING SPACE
AND WHO ARE USUALLY, BUT NOT ALWAYS, UNITED BY MARRIAGE AND KINDSHIP
-BEEBE AND BEEBE
FAMILY TYPES
NATURAL OR NUCLEAR FAMILY
MOTHER, FATHER, AND THEIR BIOLOGICAL
CHILDREN
EXTENDED FAMILY
RELATIVES SUCH AS AUNTS, UNCLES,
COUSINS, OR GRANDPARENTS
AND/OR UNRELATED PERSONS WHO ARE
PART OF A FAMILY UNIT
FAMILY OF ORIGIN
FAMILY IN WHICH A PERSON IS RAISED
BLENDED FAMILY
TWO ADULTS AND THEIR CHILDREN.
BECAUSE OF DIVORCE, SEPARATION, DEATH, OR
ADOPTION,
THE CHILDREN ARE THE OFFSPRING OF
OTHER BIOLOGICAL PARENTS
OR OF JUST ONE OF THE ADULTS WHO ARE RAISING
THEM
SINGLE PARENT FAMILY
ONE PARENT RAISING ONE OR MORE
CHILDREN
MODELS OF FAMILY INTERACTION
TWO MODELS OF FAMILY INTERACTION
CIRCUMPLEX MODEL OF FAMILY
INTERACTION
MODEL OF THE RELATIONSHIPS AMONG FAMILY ADAPTABILITY,
COHESION, AND COMMUNICATION
FAMILY COMMUNICATION PATTERNS MODEL
A MODEL OF FAMILY COMMUNICATION BASED
ON TWO DIMENSIONS: CONVERSATION AND
CONFORMITY
CIRCUMPLEX MODEL-ADAPTABILITY
FAMILY'S ABILITY TO MODIFY AND RESPOND TO CHANGES
IN THE FAMILY'S POWER STRUCTURE AND ROLES
CIRCUMPLEX MODEL-COHESION
EMOTIONAL BONDING AND FEELINGS OF
TOGETHERNESS THAT FAMILIES EXPERIENCE
BASIC IDEA-CIRCUMPLEX MODEL: A FAMILY IS DEFINED BY:
1) HOW CLOSE IT IS
2) HOW WELL IT RESPONDS TO CHANGE IN POWER, AND
3) HOW WELL IT COMMUNICATES
BASIC IDEA-FAMILY COMMUNICATION
PATTERNS MODEL: FAMILY DEFINED BY:
1) DEGREE TO WHICH COMMUNICATION IS ENCOURAGED AND
2) THE DEGREE TO WHICH SHARING OF ATTITUDES, VALUES AND BELIEFS ARE ENCOURAGED
CONSENSUAL FAMILIES
FAMILIES WITH A HIGH ORIENTATION TOWARD BOTH CONVERSATION
AND CONFORMITY
FAMILY COMMUNICATION PATTERNS MODEL
PLURALISTIC FAMILIES
FAMILIES WITH A HIGH ORIENTATION TOWARD CONVERSATION BUT A
LOW ORIENTATION TOWARD CONFORMITY
FAMILY COMMUNICATIONS PATTERN MODEL
PROTECTIVE FAMILIES
FAMILIES WITH A LOW ORIENTATION TOWARD
CONVERSATION BUT A HIGH ORIENTATION TOWARD
CONFORMITY
FAMILY COMMUNICATION PATTERNS MODEL
LAISSEZ-FAIRE FAMILIES
FAMILIES WITH A LOW ORIENTATION TOWARD BOTH CONVERSATION
AND CONFORMITY
FAMILY COMMUNICATIONS PATTERN MODEL
IMPROVING FAMILY COMMUNICATON
IMPROVING FAMILY COMMUNICATION
TALK ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS AND FEELINGS
LISTEN ACTIVELY AND CLARIFY MESSAGES
SUPPORT AND ENCOURAGE ONE ANOTHER
USE PRODUCTIVE CONFLICT MANAGEMENT STRATEGIES
SPECIFIC FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
COMMITTED PARTNERS:
TRADITIONAL COUPLES
PARTNERS WHO ARE INTERDEPENDENT AND WHO EXHIBIT A LOT OF
SHARING AND COMPANIONSHIP
INTERDEPENDENT COUPLES
MARRIED PARTNERS
WHO EXHIBIT SHARING AND COMPANIONSHIP
AND ARE PSYCHOLOGICALLY INTERDEPENDENT
BUT ALLOW EACH OTHER INDIVIDUAL SPACE
SEPARATE COUPLES
MARRIED PARTNERS
WHO SUPPORT THE NOTION OF MARRIAGE
AND FAMILY
BUT STRESS THE INDIVIDUAL OVER THE
COUPLE
MIXED COUPLES
MARRIED COUPLES
IN WHICH THE HUSBAND AND WIFE EACH ADOPT A
DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE ON THE
MARRIAGE
PARENTS AND CHILDREN
CHILDREN LEARN COMMUNICATION SKILLS
FROM PARENTS IN 3 WAYS:
BY INTERACTING WITH THEIR PARENTS
BY INSTRUCTION FROM THEIR PARENTS
BY OBSERVATION OF THEIR PARENTS' BEHAVIOR
SIBLINGS
SIBLINGS
THESE RELATIONSHIPS INFLUENCED BY SEX, AGE,
AND NUMBER
CHANGE AS PARTNERS GO THROUGH STAGES OF
DEVELOPMENT OVER TIME
PATTERN IS TO BEGIN CLOSE, GROW APART, AND THEN
COME CLOSER TOGETHER LATER IN LIFE
FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
DEFINITION OF FAMILY
MODELS OF FAMILIES
IMPROVE COMMUNICATION
TYPES OF MARRIED COUPLES
SIBLINGS
PRINCIPLES OF RELATIONSHIPS
1. RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT PERFECT2. RELATIONSHIPS DO NOT GIVE YOU EVERYTHING3. RELATIONSHIPS NEED TO BE NURTURED4. RELATIONSHIPS ARE BOTH PLEASURABLE AND PAINFUL5. RELATIONSHIPS REQUIRE FLEXIBILITY
SUMMARY:
DEFINITION OF FAMILY MODELS OF FAMILIES IMPROVE COMMUNICATION TYPES OF MARRIED COUPLES SIBLINGS
PRINCIPLES OF RELATIONSHIPS