magic relationship words

You may not know it yet, but...

There are actually certain words you can say in certain ways to yourpartner, spouse or lover, that when you say them, you'll not onlyreduce or eliminate the possibility of either one of you shutting downor getting upset -- but using these words also makes you instantly feelmore understood, more loved and connected than you ever thoughtpossible.

Just continue reading to learn more about these words and how to usethem...

Dear Friend,

We're Susie and Otto Collins and as you think about your current and pastrelationships, we'd like to ask you the following questions...

Have you ever been in a relationship situation where you've said theWRONG thing to someone and you wished you could have immediatelytaken back what you said because of all the problems it caused?

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Have you ever just not known what to say to someone to make asituation work out and you just kept quiet because you didn't want tocause problems by saying the wrong thing or saying something thatcould be taken the wrong way? Have you ever wished that you knew what to say to your partner orspouse before you said something that would cause the two of you tobecome disconnected or even more distant? Have you ever struggled to find the right words to say to your partner toexplain yourself and your feelings? Have you ever caused a fight with your partner, spouse or lover and youdon't even know how?

And finally...

Have you ever wanted to feel more understood by the people closest toyou in your life?

If you answered YES to any of the above questions, you are not alone.

Being able to say the right words in the right way is something everyone wantsbut is not always easy.

Being able to use the right words at the right time so you can speak the truthopenly and honestly in a relationship, along with wanting to feel heard,understood and appreciated are some of the biggest challenges that most peopleface in relationships today.

Saying the wrong thing to someone (sometimes even the smallest thing) canabsolutely wreck a relationship.

This is why using "magic words" is so important in creating a close, connected,vital and alive relationship.

What Are "Magic Relationship Words" and How Can You UseThem In Your Communication To Create Closer Connections

With Your Partner, Spouse or Lover?

If you're not getting the love, passion, intimacy or depth of connection that youwant--the biggest reason is because of the words you use and how you use themwhen you communicate with your partner, spouse or lover.

Use the wrong words in the wrong way and what you get is relationship disaster.


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Use the right words in the right way and what you get is "magic."

We call these words "magic" because when you use them they can work like"magic" to open both you and your partner's hearts, create more love, moreconnection, more intimacy and more of whatever you want in your relationship.

These words can make the difference between whether you feel loved, cared forand connected or you feel alone, separated, distant and disconnected from yourpartner, mate or lover.

How We Learned to Use "Magic Words" In OurRelationship and How You Can Too...

Long before we started writing books, doing seminars, creating programs andworking with people, like you in our Relationship Breakthrough coachingpractice--and prior to our relationship together--we had both come out oflong-term marriages.

Susie was married to someone else for 30 years and Otto's prior marriage lasted15 years.

During that time and in those previous relationships, we both made everyconceivable communication mistake you could make.

Saying the wrong thing at the wrong times and doing a poor job ofcommunicating certainly wasn't the only reason those marriages didn't last butputting our "foot in our mouths," using the wrong words or saying the wrongthing to our partners certainly contributed to those relationships ending.

Otto specifically remembers on quite a few occasions, late at night sitting in thebasement of the apartment he lived in with his ex, trying to figure out the rightwords to say to get her to tell him what she was thinking, feeling and why sheseemed so distant to him.

In Susie's situation--she and her first husband seemed to just go along livingseparate lives together until it was clear that the relationship was over.

Communication was civil but frustrating. Susie can recall many occasions whereshe felt like she was emotionally "clawing" at him so he'd reveal what he wasfeeling--but never to her satisfaction.

Fast forward several years later after those marriages ended and we gottogether...

During the first part of our relationship, our bond and connection was so strongand it felt so good being together that we essentially ignored the fact that we hadlousy communication skills when it came to intimate relationships.

We were relying on pure magnetism and attraction to make our relationshipwork.

In hindsight, we have to admit this part of our lives was pretty exciting.


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We'd work all day and make love all night--and like most people in relationships,we figured out that we couldn't do this forever.

When the "honeymoon" period of our relationship started coming to a close, werealized that it was going to require more than just magnetism and attraction ifwe were going to make it for the long-haul.

We somehow intuitively knew that if we didn't learn the secrets tocommunicating with each other, even though our connection and attraction wasstrong, we probably wouldn't make it either.

We knew we had to do something and that's when we started studyingeverything we could get our hands on about relationships.

We read books, listened to audio programs, attended seminars, got coaching,and found mentors--and as a result of our desire to keep our relationship strong,healthy, vibrant, alive and connected...we learned thousands of relationshipideas and started practicing them.

One of the things we figured out as a result of all this studying and reallydigging deep into our relationships was--

The words we use when we talk to one another matter.

In fact, another thing we discovered was when we felt really close andconnected, supported, appreciated, loved and important-- there were certainthings we would say to each other (in certain ways we might add) that wouldhelp us feel even more connected. So we started doing more of it.

We started noticing these words that worked for us so well and then we startedusing them more intentionally and our relationship began to blossom and groweven more.

We learned that if you use the right words in the right way, you'll want to let yourold ways of communicating just fade away because this changes everything inyour relationship for the better.

It wasn't all that long ago that we were thinking about these words we use thatwork so well for us in our relationship that we decided to compile a list of themand offer the list to you and anyone else who wants them and show you how tobest use them.

Before we give you an example of one of these "magic words" and show youhow to use it in your relationship, there's something really important we wantyou to know...

Why Haven't You Heard of These "Magic Words" Before Nowand Why Do Most People Have Such A Hard time Communicating

and Connecting With Each Other?


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It's not your fault that you don't always know the right words to say to yourpartner spouse or lover...

After all, how could it be?

How could you be expected to know these words that could really connect thetwo of you?

You couldn't.

No one ever taught them to you and the big reason is simply that most peopledon't know them.

After all-- wouldn't it have been great if when you were in grade school learningto read and write that your teachers also taught you the best words to say andhow to communicate to create the best possible relationships?

Wouldn't it also have been great if your parents or your early childhoodcaregivers would have taught you the secrets of communication and the bestwords to use to communicate with love and kindness and the best words to sayto the people in your life to really connect with them at a heart and soul level?

The fact is...your teachers in school didn't teach you these things because theydidn't know and your parents didn't know either because nobody taught them.

It's so painful not knowing the right words to say to your partner and notknowing what to do in your relationship to create what you want--a closerrelationship with more love, connection and intimacy.

In order to help you create this, we want to share some of these "magicrelationship words" with you right now so you can begin using them in yourrelationship or marriage immediately.

And please make sure that you don't take these words lightly.

There really is "magic" and power in these words.

We've tested them over and over in a real world laboratory we call our ownrelationship.

We know these words work in our relationship and life, as well as in the lives ofour Relationship Breakthrough Coaching clients, and they can work for you too.

"8 Relationship-Transforming Words"

Sometimes we're so close to some of the relationship ideas we've learned andtalk about that we forget how powerful and effective they can be in helping youcreate more love and closer connections with your partner, spouse or lover.


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A friend of ours reminded us of this during an interview he was doing with uswhen he called this sentence..."8 relationship- transforming words."

He went on to say that "if you learn these 8 simple words contained in this onesingle sentence, you will automatically begin ending your relationship conflictstoday and start experiencing more love and harmony in all areas of your life."

They're words you will use again and again to gracefully and automaticallyenable you to open a heartfelt dialogue any time you feel the need to speak yourtruth.

Here are the 8 words and how you can use them in your relationship and life...

"Because this relationship is so important to me, __________."

These 8 relationship-transforming words can be a communication lead-in thatpromotes openness or they can also help soften and shift a difficult, tensemoment into one where you two move closer together despite the topic.

Let's face it.

Who doesn't want to hear a partner re-affirm that your relationship is important?

These words are so potentially transformational because the one speaking themis clearly indicating that his or her intention is to better what you have togetherbecause it is so worthwhile.

After saying this phrase, you can make a request, ask for clarification or sharesomething that you've discovered about yourself. While the crux of yourstatement might not be easy for your partner to hear, when it's coupled withthese 8 relationship-transforming words, there can be a sense of ease andpossibility imbued in the situation.

Here's a quick story and an example of these "Magic Relationship Words" inaction...

Shirley is worried about her partner Jay's drinking.

It seems to Shirley that Jay turns to alcohol whenever he gets stressed out orfeels upset about something.

This is not a healthy habit, but it's even worse because just about every time Jaydrinks, the two of them get into a huge fight.

They don't normally argue so Shirley often knows when Jay's been drinkingbecause he starts yelling at her about even minor issues. This usually sparksShirley's anger and she begins yelling along with him.

She wants to talk with Jay about his drinking and ask him to consider seeing an


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abuse counselor but is fearful that it will turn into another argument.

Shirley reads some websites that recommend ways of talking with your partnerabout his or her alcohol abuse and decides that it's time to really be honest withJay.

Starting her words to him with the phrase "Because our relationship is soimportant to me..." sets the framework for his being open to what else she has tosay and she continues on by sharing with Jay how she feels when he drinks andarguments erupt between them--and that she believes it's time for him to gethelp.

Can one single phrase change the entire course of your relationships?

The answer is unequivocally YES!

Especially if you've been experiencing any conflict...

Especially if you want to AVOID future conflict...

Especially if you want to learn how to live in peace and harmony with the peoplewho are most important to you...

We can't encourage you enough to memorize and use that one simple sentencefor the sake of yourself and for your loved ones right now.

And there's more...

We have over 100 more words, phrases and sentence-starters (just as powerfulas this one) that we'd also like to share with you.

You'll find these additional "magic words" in our new book and audio programcalled "Magic Relationship Words" that you can download right now...

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We've organized this "Magic Relationship Words" book from our programinto three parts:

In part 1, the introduction, we give you the "Magic Words Mindset" which isthe mindset from which you want to communicate everything to your partnerand any other important person in your life.

This is critical. After all, if you're going learn the right words to say, you'regoing to want to make sure you know how to say them.

That's what we do next--we give you the exact tonality, body language andattitudes you're going to need to know to make sure all the other parts of youare congruent with the new words you're going to be using.

Next, you'll get 83 chapters that are either one or two pages that each focuson teaching you one word, phrase or sentence-starter.

Each of these chapters are written in the same short, consistent format andhas three distinct parts--

1. First, in bold print, we give you the magic word, phrase or sentence.

2. Next, we explain or share why we think this particular word, sentence orphrase can work like "magic" for you in your relationship and finally...

3. In each chapter, we give you an example of these words in action. Theseexamples provide a context for how someone else has used these words tocreate more closeness and connection in his or her relationship and life soyou can get an idea about how you might apply them to your situation.


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Because this is a downloadable book, you'll get access to this book instantlyand you can either read it from your computer screen or you can choose toprint it out and read it away from your computer.

You'll love the short chapter format "Magic Relationship Words" because itmakes it easy to read it from cover to cover or just open the book each dayand choose one of the magic words at random to practice during that day.The key is to try them out and practice them.

As you go through this information, you will get the most out of it if you askyourself this question-"How can I use these words or these ideas in my life?"

You might even want to take out a notebook and begin making notes abouthow you could use these words to communicate and connect more deeplywith the important people in your life.

This way, you're not just reading a book; you're actively working through it.This can make a big difference in how well you are able to integrate theseideas into your communication and life.

When you order the "Magic Relationship Words" book and audioprogram, you'll also get instant access to the following downloadable

mp3 audio recordings that are a part of the package...

These two mp3 audios are about 90 minutes total and are NOTrecordings of us reading the "Magic Relationship Words" book.

These recordings are additional info that expands on what weteach in the main book and on these two audio recordings wefocus on the "magic words" that build and rebuild trust in arelationship or marriage--and that's something we could all usemore of.

The first mp3 audio you get is about 60 minutes and is therecording from the actual "Magic Relationship Words That Buildor Rebuild Trust" teleseminar and webcast.

We give you not only specific words and phrases to say to your

Audio Recordings

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partner but also words and phrases to say to yourself to helpyou change your internal "self-talk" to get you in the "right"mindset to communicate with your partner.

The second mp3 audio you get is about 30 minutes and is therecording of us (Susie & Otto) answering some specificquestions that were sent to us about these "magic words" thatbuild trust.

Here's a partial list of what you'll learn when you get the "MagicRelationship Words" book and audio program...

The biggest communication mistake couples make that leads to a relationshipending, separation or divorce and the best words to say to make sure you andyour partner stay together

The communication mindset you must adopt if want more openness, love andunderstanding between you and your partner

8 things to pay attention to in order to make sure your words match your desiredoutcome

How to start a conversation in a way that shows your partner you're open tolistening and talking about solutions to problems or challenges rather thanblaming and criticizing--doing this will feel so much better to both you and yourpartner

Words you can say that insert a sense of ease into tense times and actually helpyou and your mate move closer together

The best words to say and use when you want or need to set boundaries ormake requests

A quick and easy way to identify your feelings and what you want(It will make a dramatic difference in the quality of your relationship when youcan get clear about what you want or what's going on inside of you)

Wonderful tools to communicate what's true for you about situations that may bedifficult or may need clarification

A great way to get someone to listen to you as you speak to them

8 relationship-transforming words that can help soften and shift a difficult, tense


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moment into one where the two of you move closer together despite thetopic...when you are able to do this, you will develop the attitude that the two ofyou can overcome anything together

One word you shouldn't say to your partner (or anyone else) when you aremaking a request of them and the one word you should say instead

A breakthrough question you can use to start out a conversation with yourpartner that shows without a doubt that you value their opinion--when you askthis with curiosity and an open heart, your partner can't help but shift too andbegin to value your opinion more as well

How to make words of appreciation more meaningful when you express them toyour mate, partner or spouse

4 "magic words" to say to your partner when you may be tempted to lash out atthem when you feel frustrated, afraid, angry, confused or upset--using these 4words will not only draw the two of you closer together but make feel more loved,supported and appreciated by your partner

6 reassuring words that reminds you to "stay open" even if what you're seeingfrom your partner feels scary or uncomfortable

A sentence you can learn quickly and easily to get your partner to clear his or hermind and pay full attention to what you have to say

A new phrase you can use to say how you feel that also encourages a sense ofopenness

A powerful thing to say if your relationship has run "off course" and you want tosteer it back where you want it

The one thing you should always ask someone before you offer any kind ofadvice--this makes sure you are honoring them and you're also not doingsomething they don't want

A great question you can ask to make sure you understand what your partnermeans when they say something--this promotes better understandings and acloser connection

How to ask someone to just "listen" to you when you have something importantto say--this instantly makes you feel more understood, appreciated and valued


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A good question to ask your partner if you want to understand how they arefeeling about something--when you ask this question, it eliminates confusion andguessing about how they feel

A simple sentence-starter that instantly gives you a way to shift negative energythat could be holding you and your partner back from creating more love andconnection

An easy-to-say way to share with your partner (or anyone) how you'd like yourcommunication to be

How to bring up subjects that you or your partner may have felt defensive aboutin the past and NOT cause a fight or upset

A perfect way you can tell someone about your needs and have them want tohelp you or do what you ask

A heart-opening question you can ask of your partner when he or she seemsclosed down or having a difficult time--this one question will help you understandthem and what they're feeling or going through as well as have both of you feelmore love and a deeper connection

How to bring up a "negative" topic or something difficult to talk about

Words you can use that helps you and your partner become more trustable toeach other

The best words to respond with when someone (especially your intimate partner)criticizes you or says something that hurts your feelings

A magic phrase you can not only say to put a positive spin on somethingnegative but it is something you can also use to look to the future with excitement

How to open up conversations to talk about times you were or are angry withsomeone--when you use these words and start conversations like these, the twoof you can stay open even in the midst of anger or an upset

Words you can say to tell your partner about something that's really important toyou--even if they don't agree with you

Words you can use to make requests in a clear way that don't cause morestruggle, conflict or problems


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Words you can use to let your partner know what you need in a particularmoment--this one thing will stop guesswork and help you get your needs metbecause your partner will know them when you communicate them in this way

Words, phrases and sentences you can immediately start using that promote anattitude of kindness, openness, caring and love in your relationship (even in themidst of conflict or chaos)

And much more...

How to tell if this "Magic Relationship Words"book and audio program is for you...

If you or your partner have any challenges at all in communicating yourthoughts, feelings or emotions to each other, then this "Magic RelationshipWords" book and audio program is for you.

If you'd like to know the exact words and phrases to say to your partner,spouse or lover so that you never stumble over finding the right words to sayto them, then this book and audio program is for you.

If you would like to know how to communicate your needs to your partnerand be able to understand their needs without conflict, then this book andaudio program is for you.

If you've ever wished you had the right words to say at any time (now or inthe past) to be able to speak your truth and be honest and authentic withoutholding back --then this is for you.

If you are willing to invest a little bit of time, effort and energy into learningsome new skills, ideas and techniques that will dramatically improve thequality of your communication and instantly create breakthroughs in yourrelationship or marriage -- then this program is for you.

If you have even an ounce of desire to heal the communication issues andchallenges that come up for you in your relationship or marriage, wesincerely believe this program can change your life.

On the other hand, if you aren't willing at this point to spend another secondof your time on this relationship or your partner...

or

...you are unwilling to give it one more try, then you should probably pass on


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this info and not bother downloading it.

This program is for people who want more love and a better relationship andare willing to try some new ways of talking to and communicating with yourpartner in order to get it.

What Do You Want For Your Relationships?

If you've read this far on this web page, we're thinking that you're someonewho really is interested in more from your relationships than you have rightnow and you're willing to be open to some new ideas to create somethingbetter.

Are we right?

We think so and if you're finally ready to start using these "MagicRelationship Words" we've been talking about and start communicating toconnect, then here's what you're going to want to do...

Download our complete "Magic Relationship Words" program now and startgoing through the information right away.

This book and audio program gives you over 100 amazing words, phrasesand sentence-starters that will help you say it right every time when you arecommunicating in your most important relationships.

This is the ONLY program of its kind where you get the exact words andphrases to say--along with clear instructions on how to best say them.

This will be like having us whispering in your ear and coaching you on theright things to say when it counts the most.

Now is the perfect time to take advantage of the fact that we've spent hours,days and weeks putting together the best collection of "magic words" you'llfind anywhere along with easy instructions on how to use them and applythem in your relationship and life.

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Bonus #1 -- "21 Words, Phrases and Sentences to NEVER Say To Your Partner,Spouse or Lover"-- When you get our "Magic Relationship Words" book and audioprogram, we're giving you over 100 words, phrases and sentence-starters to say toyour partner to make your communication really flow and feel effortless and help youmake sure you say the right words every time.

Here, with this special downloadable bonus in .pdf format... we're giving you a list of21 of our top words and things to NOT say to your partner if you want to have aclose and connected relationship filled with love, respect and kindness.

Bonus #2--"10 Communication Mistakes Most People Make In TheirRelationships and What They Can Do To Fix Them" -- This special report by Susieand Otto contains the master keys on how to start improving communication now witheveryone in your life. This 21 page downloadable special report is in pdf format.

Bonus #3--"Susie and Otto Collins' Love and Relationship Newsletter" -- Thisfree weekly email newsletter is filled with practical tips and ideas about how to createbetter communication, more spark and a deeper connection. You may unsubscribe atany time. You'll also receive free information about how to create better communicationin your relationship.

Warning: This "Magic Relationship Words" package that includes thebook, the audios and terrific bonuses is not available in storesanywhere. The only place you can get it is here on our web site.

Because this is a downloadable package, you can be reading theinformation and listening to the audios within minutes.

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If for any reason, you aren't completely satisfied withyour purchase, just let us know within 60 days andwe'll refund 100% of your purchase price.

Click the "add to cart" button below to download the "Magic RelationshipWords" book and audio program now... and you'll be on your way to creatinginstant breakthroughs in your communication, not only with your partner or spouse--but the other people in your life as well.

Our best to you,

Susie and Otto Collins

P.S. Remember, this "Magic Relationship Words" package is notavailable in stores anywhere. It's only available as a downloadablepackage here on our web site.

Don't put it off. Order now and you'll be taking that all important firststep towards knowing exactly what to say and how to say it every timewhen communicating with your partner, spouse or lover so you canstart getting more of the love you really want right now.


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"Thank you from the bottom of my heart"...

"During this Thanksgiving week, I simply want to thank you from the bottom of myheart.

"I'm discovering how valuable these magic words are for any relationship (aboveand beyond the primary relationship)- and I'm handling a highly sensitive familytrauma - which needs all the love, patience and wisdom in the world towork-through - and I'm adapting the magic words according to need to helpsupport this delicate, difficult navigation.

"I love how the workbook creates a sense of emotional space and reflectionliterally by including space for exercises - in itself helping to decompress'tightness' and 'fear' and open-up heartfelt, authentic connection even whereextremely deep differences, perceptions and experiences may exist.

"Susie and Otto, thanks for creating and sharing this - part of your invaluable giftof service to the path of truly authentic human relating."

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"Magic Relationship Words...conveys the feeling that themessage is coming from a loving place"...

"There's no way to express how grateful I am that I found your assistance in myrecently discovered need to become reconnected with my wife, Mary. Things havea way of happening to us that we cannot believe would ever be happening.

"My discovery came as a result of a medical situation for Mary that caused amomentary thought that I might not have her in my life tomorrow. That thoughttriggered a change in my entire outlook on our relationship.

"Until that moment, the word relationship had very little import to me. Then withthe new outlook in my heart, valuable resources like your book and news lettersbegan to come into my view and I have been digesting and studying more than Ihave since my school years.

"I worried for a bit that Mary might think I had gone off the deep end since myattention to her and our "relationship" had made such an abrupt change( Reverse ! ). Having read about the mistakes we men make, ( I responded "oh no"to all ten ), I had to wonder how it is that Mary still loves me.

"The "Magic Relationship Words" are a totally awesome collection of thoughtfuland logical words to wrap a thought into that conveys the feeling thatthe message is coming from a loving place.

"I can't report ( yet ) that I've spoken more than the one that has had the most


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profound effect on my thinking and in reducing Mary's apprehension about mychange in attitude. ( "This relationship is so important to me _______ ")

Just to be certain that my new focus on our relationship wasn't causing Mary anyworries about my mental health, I asked her best friend if Mary had mentionedanything about my recent relationship actions with her. The friend responded, "Yes!", with a smile. Then I asked her if Mary was pleased.... and got another "Yes !".

"I told Mary about the two question conversation an hour later after we we aloneagain and expressed to her how very happy and grateful that it had made me toknow that she was accepting that my "change" is a genuine love based intention.

"Thank you both for the gifts you have shared to help our relationship. Mary and Ihave had a "good" 41 year marriage, and now I know we will have a GREATmarriage everyday from here on."

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"[Magic Words] helped me think about howmy words and attitudes could be perceived

or misconstrued..."

"I have really enjoyed not only the Magic Relationship Wordsbook, but also the mini course. The series and book helped methink about how my words and attitudes could be perceived ormisconstrued by my partner, and how to more effectivelycommunicate how I'm feeling or what I'm thinking withoutmaking the situation worse.

"I'm generally considered to be a kind, considerate person butthis is a new relationship and I'm still learning his triggers andcommunication style.

"Your products really helped me put myself in his shoes in amore productive way. Thanks a lot for the help!

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"I downloaded your 'Magic Words' ebook and got two audios acouple days ago. Honestly, this material is terrific. I'm 60 yrsold and have been single for 27 years. I've worked on myself alot but now that I finally have a really good man, I've noticed


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my inner thinking and some outer reactions that really havenothing to do with him. Your material is really helping meclarify and take responsibility for my own 'stuff' so I won'tdestroy what we are building. Thank you so much for what youdo! You do it very well, too.

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He's noticed a huge difference in theresponse he gets out of the people he's

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"I'm nearly 21 yrs of age and at different stages of my life havestruggled to communicate with people and I've alwayswondered why even when I've had the best intentions whentalking to people, I've upset them or made things worse.

"After reading the books what not to say it came clear that Iuse a lot of the language that you recommend not to use andsince I've started to make a real effort to how I talk to peopleand how I express myself, I've noticed a huge difference in theresponse I get out of the people I'm talking to.

"I haven't read everything but I'm slowly getting through a lotof it and I personally feel it's great stuff. I truly think if I make areal effort in the future with putting what I learn into action, Ibelieve it will help me with my relationships between the everyday people I mix with.

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"If I had had Magic Words, we would not haveseparated..."

"I first came across your "stuff" so to speak from a link by BobGrant. My long distance boyfriend just broke up with me and Ihad ordered his ebook on getting a man back into your life andthe one on long distance relationships. I also had read thebook on the 5 Languages of Love referenced in Bob's ebook.

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"Even in the middle of the conversation, he made a referencethat the breakup was permanent.

"I went over your relationship words, and basically with all ofthe above knowledge, I typed out a conversation, even goingover 1 very bad incident and told him what I should have saidand how we could have devised a plan to synergistically workout a solution.

"It really hit him like a ton of bricks! (but in the right way). Thephrase I used was the "I noticed that XXX seems to still bebothering you. How can I help you with that?"

"I ended with telling him that when he was having trouble witha certain situation, in fact, I realized that we were actuallyevolving and going forward as a couple, and not becoming justfriends.

"I told him I needed to give him encouraging words, part of hislove language. So I pulled out your most perfect sentence andsaid to him, this is what I should have said and I will say it now:


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"I am going to love you anyway.

"Then I paused and just waited. After a bit he told me I hadgiven him much to think about. My own intuition told me to endwith this, because his heart would be doing a 180. He said hehad to end off, probably since it was quite a lot of emotion,positive though.

"He also said he would call me again. I think he is mullingthings over.

"It was a combination of everything I mentioned above, and stilldeviating from Bob's advice and having the guts to do it.

"I'll keep studying those words so I will be ready when he callsback and for use in regular relationships too.

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"The real-life examples are also very helpful. Many thanks for such a thoroughand wonderful book... the next time I find myself talking on eggshells, I'll have agreat reference guide to gently remind me of how to get myself out of thatpattern! What a reassuring thought, indeed!" Many thanks! Kim Loftis, spiritual fulfillment coach and authorBurnsville, North Carolina,www.KimLoftis.com

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