JUNE

Saturday, 1st

9:00 am Praise Team Rehearsal****DEADLINE FOR SCHOLARSHIP

APPLICATIONS****

Sunday, 2nd

8:00 am Praise Team Rehearsal9:30 am Choir Rehearsal10:00 am Worship Service/Communion

Sunday School 11:30am-noon Children’s Choir6:00 pm Senior Youth Group

Monday, 3rd

10:00 am Golf Outing

Wednesday, 5th

9am-2 pm Scrappers1:00 pm To Live Is Christ7:30 pm Confirmation Class

Thursday, 6th

7:30 pm Last Adult Choir Rehearsal

Saturday, 8th

9:00 am Praise Team Rehearsal

Sunday, 9th PENTECOST8:00 am Praise Team Rehearsal9:30 am Choir Rehearsal10:00 am Worship

Service/Confirmation/CommunionSunday School

11:30am-noon Children’s Choir Party

Monday, 10th

7:30 pm Consistory

Wednesday, 12th

1:00 pm To Live Is Christ

Thursday, 13th

7:30 pm Adult Choir Rehearsal

Saturday, 15th

9:00 am Praise Team Rehearsal

Sunday, 16th FATHER’S DAY8:00 am Praise Team Rehearsal9:30 am Choir Rehearsal10:00 am Worship Service

Sunday School

Monday, 17th

7:30 pm Transition Team Meeting

Wednesday, 19th

9am-2 pm Scrappers1:00 pm To Live Is Christ

Saturday, 22nd

9:00 am Praise Team Rehearsal

Sunday, 23rd GRADUATION SUNDAY8:00 am Praise Team Rehearsal9:30 am Choir Rehearsal10:00 am Worship Service

Sunday School 12:00pm Car Wash

Saturday, 29th

9:00 am Praise Team Rehearsal11am-noon Orchestra and both choirs rehearsal

Sunday, 30th PASTOR RICH’S LAST DAY8:00 am Praise Team Rehearsal9:30 am Orchestra/ Both Choirs - Sanctuary10:00 am Worship Service

Coffee Hour2:00 pm Pastor Rich’s Retirement Party

Pastor Rich takes Friday Off.

UPCOMING EVENTS:

July 4 – 10:00 am 4th of July Parade2:00 pm Duck Race

July 7 – Hymn SingJuly 7-14 – SYG Mission TripJuly 29-Aug. 2 – VBS at Milltown Methodist

June 2019

Farewell Greetings

I have been struggling to put into words the wide range of thoughts and emotions Diane and I are having as we prepare for the next chapter of our lives.

As I reflect on the past 26 years, I am extremely grateful for having had the opportunity to love all of you and to be loved by all of you.

Unless I spend the next 26 years in Forked River and live to be 93 years old, living in Milltown and being your Pastor will be the longest place that I will have lived and pastored.

THANK YOU!

I offer you the 7 keys to life that I have used to challenge myself.# 1. God First# 2. Love One another # 3. Never Hate# 4. Give Generously# 5. Live Simply# 6. Forgive Quickly# 7. Be Kind Always

I also offer you the key lessons that I have learned in my 43 years of ministry and life are: • Every day holds things that you can be

excited about and some things you will not be excited about.

• In your own strength, you will fall desperately short of all that is expected of you.

• The only One you have to please is God.

• Season every interaction with grace and purpose.

• Surrender every day, every agenda and every plan into God’s Hands.

I offer you a prayer to pray each day. I believe it is a prayer that was offered by Mother Teresa.

Dear Jesus,Help me to spread Your fragrance wherever I go.Flood my soul with Your Spirit and life.Penetrate and possess my whole being so utterly, that my life may only be a radiance of Yours.Shine through me, and be so in methat every soul I come in contact withmay feel Your presence in my soul.Let others see not me, but only Jesus!Stay with me and then I will begin to shine as You shine, so to shine as to be a light to others.The light, O Jesus, will be all from You; none of it will be mine.It will be You, shining on others through me.Let me praise You in the way which You love best.Let me preach You without preaching, not by words but by my example.Amen.

Godspeed

Pastor Rich

WORSHIPJUNE

2 - COMMUNIONMatthew 18:21-35Forgive Us AS We Forgive

9 - CONFIRMATIONMatthew 22:32-40GO BIG!

16 - FATHER’S DAYEphesians 6:10-20Lead Us Not, But Deliver Us

23 - GRADUATION SUNDAYIsaiah 40:1-8Endures Forever

30 - PASTOR RICH’S FAREWELLIsaiah 41:30On Eagles Wings

Sr. YOUTH GROUPWe will meet Sunday, June 2nd @ 6:00pm.REMINDER: Mission Trip Forms and the balance of the cost MUST BE RETURNED at or before this June 2nd

meeting.

MISSION TRIPIT IS NOT TOO LATE!

There are 2 spots open. Contact Jeff Rumen @ 732-407-4326 if you want to go. Do it NOW!

CELEBRATE FATHER’S DAY

We are going to honor our Fathers at worship on Sunday, June 17th. All Dads

will: receive a gift; have their name entered into a drawing to win one gift cards.

JUNE’S BENEVOLENCEJune’s communion offering, will be given to the Senior Youth Group in support of their mission trip to Savannah, GA this July.

TEN WAYS TO LOVE1. Listen without interrupting. - Prov 18:132. Speak without accusing. - James 1:193. Give without sparing. - Prov.21.264. Pray without ceasing. - Col.1:95. Answer without arguing. - Prov. 17.16. Share without pretending. - Eph. 4:157. Enjoy without complaining. Phil. 2:148. Trust without wavering. 1 Cor. 13:79. Forgive without punishing. Col. 3:1310. Promise without forgetting. Prov.

13:12

PRAYER of the MONTHWe give our thanks, Creator God, for the fathers in our lives. Fatherhood does not come with a manual, and reality teaches us that some fathers excel while others fail.We ask for Your blessings for them all – and forgiveness where it is needed.We remember the many sacrifices fathers make for their children and families, and the ways – both big and small – they lift children to achieve dreams thought beyond reach.We remember all those who have helped fill the void when fathers pass early or are absent – grandfathers and uncles, brothers and cousins, teachers, pastors and coaches – and the women of our families.For those who are fathers, we ask for wisdom and humility in the face of the task of parenting. Give them the strength to do well by their children and by You.

In Your Holy name, O God, we pray. Amen.”

FORE!Time is running out!REGISTER TODAY

St. Paul’s is having a GOLF OUTING on JUNE 3 at the Concordia Golf Club in Monroe. This is a benefit for your church. Coffee and bagels at the club house before teeing off.After a round of golf we will return to the American Legion Pavillon in Milltown for food and beverages.The registration flyer is attached to this month’s Tidings. The cost is $80.Please fill it out and return it to the church office no later than MAY 28.

Are you a member of the Class of 2019?Then are invited to be our guest at worship on Sunday, June 23.We are proud of your accomplishment. We want to honor you at worship on Sunday, June 23.In order to be recognized you need to let us know by Sunday, June 16th.Call: 732-828-0020Email: stpaulschurch@optonline.netText: 301-503-7530 TELL US!!!!!!!!!

SUNDAY, JUNE 2312:00PM - 5:00PM

All free will donations will benefit the Sr. Youth Mission Trip

2019 FINANCIALSAPRIL YTD

Income $ 22,541.34 $ 82,226.29Expense $ 28,298.85 $ 99,842.67Gain/(Loss)($ 5,757.51)($ 17,616.38)

Previous Year to Date ($$,725.33)

“Money is not the only commodity that is fun to give. We can give time; we can give our expertise; we can give our love or simply give a smile. What does that cost? The point is, none of us can ever run out of something worthwhile to give.” – Steve Goodier

LOVE FOR LANDON BENEFITSaturday, June 22

2pm - 6pm@ Bar Anticipation

703 16th Ave, Lake Como, NJ 07719$25 Admission includes:

All you can eat Backyard Barbecue, salad and fruit bars, desserts.

Live music by

Johnny Fish and the FinsAlso available: 50/50, Raffles, Tricky Tray

and more.

5TH ANNUALDUCK RACE

On July 4th the St. Paul’s Sr. Youth Group will launch 1,000+ rubber ducks off the West side of the Main St. Bridge. The ducks will race under the bridge, over the falls and make their way to the railroad trestle to raise money for their mission trip this summer.

The first 10 ducks across the finish line will each win a $100 gift card.You can adopt a duck for as little as $5. or a raft of ducks (5 ducks) for $20.

BREAVEMENTOur sympathies to the family of Miriam Kircher, who died May 9.

SCRAP BOOKINGDo you have photos you don’t know what to do with Join our Scrapbooking/Crafting Club. We meet two Wednesdays a month in the social hall from 10am – 2 pm, $5.00, bring your lunch. Call Donna Lucid to RSVP or with any questions at 908-331-1758.

SCHOLARSHIP APPLICATIONS

Scholarships are granted to qualified high school graduates of the class of 2019 AND presently enrolled college, technical or degree students for the furtherance of their education at accredited college, university, business or trade school.The scholarship shall be for one academic year. Applicants may submit for continuance for a maximum of 4 years of assistance.Each student is required to submit an application. These applications are available via e-mail, on our website www.stpaulsmilltownnj.org or can be picked up at the church office. Email carolstpauls@optonline.net for an application.Applications must be completed and returned by June 1. Scholarships will be presented to the recipients on Sunday, June 23 during our Sunday worship service.

PASTOR SEARCH UPDATEAs of May 21, we have 2 possible candidates. We have done phone interviews with each and are in the process of scheduling in person interviews with both. We are continuing to stay in touch with various

seminaries, as well as the UCC and RCA for more candidates.Please keep the transition team in your prayers.!

CONSISTORY MINUTESMay 20, 2019

In Attendance: Nick Bamond, Dave Hastings, Matt Park, Greg Reeves, Beckie Rumen, Melanie

Dwyer, Debbie Kovacs, Sean Sullivan, Tracy Rucinski, Lois Jessen, John Garback, Debbie

Paley, Pastor RichMeeting called to order at 7:38pm by Pastor Rich who opened with a devotion from Psalm 31:5 – “Into your hands I commit my spirit; deliver me, Lord, my faithful God.” David believed that the Lord could be trusted even when life got bumpy. In the midst of uncertainty, we can breathe sighs of relief and rejoice because our faithful, loving God is our source of confidence. Those who are secure in the Lord are in amazing hands.

April’s meeting minutes were approved. Motioned by Greg R./seconded by Debbie K.

Correspondence- United Methodist Church invited us to do Community Vacation Bible School. It should run the last week of July from 6-8 PM. There will be a planning meeting on 5/30 – Sean Sullivan will attend.- Pastor Rich received an estimate from Imhoff regarding the painting of the louvers. The cost for the project is approximately $90,000 ($42,000 just for scaffolding). We have declined this project as the cost is too great.- We will make our yearly sponsorship contribution of $600 for the Milltown 4th of July Parade; motioned by Dave H./seconded by Matt P.- Pastor Rich received a letter from Rob Ramsen regarding consistory. He will need to resign due to conflicts with his work schedule.- Dawn Ramsen and Jeff Rumen requested to host the Fish guests for a third week (last week of December). Pastor Rich will reach out to the groups who use our facilities. Approved by

consistory; motioned by Greg R./seconded by John G.

Finances- We have a deficit of $5,757.51 for April and a YTD loss of $17,616.38. This was largely due to snow removal and high insurance costs. - We should receive a credit soon from Lloyd’s of London in the amount of $5400.- The budget for Easter/Lent giving was very close to actual givings.- Financials for April were approved; motioned by Dave H./seconded by John G.

ConsistoryCommunion- June 2 – Team 3- June 9 – Confirmation Sunday - Team 1

Communion Offering/Benevolence- June’s Communion Offering – Mission Trip- July’s Communion Offering – Milltown Education Foundation

Ministry TeamsPropertyThere are a few outstanding work projects that need urgent attention:- One of the doors in the Social Hall needs painting – Dick MacDowell has offered to do it.- office door knob and adjacent door (INC) needs to be replaced - Front steps to parsonage need to be repaired- Motion detector outside sanctuary needs to be repaired- Weeding

Future Dates- Consistory – June 10

The remainder of the meeting was spent discussing the progress of our pastoral search. Dave Hastings will update the congregation on the current status.

Meeting adjourned at 9:08pm, Lois Jessen closed the meeting with Prayer Concerns and the Lord’s Prayer. Motioned by Lois J./Dave H.

Music at St. Paul’s

Instrumentalists Wanted!

On Sun., June 30, our own “St. Paul’s Symphony” will be providing special music for Pastor Rich’s last service. Do you sing or play a musical instrument? All abilities welcome! See Emily to get your part.

We will rehearse on Sat., June 29, 11 am to noon in the sanctuary.

Choirs begin summer schedules

Thanks be to God for our choirs and their dedication over the 2018-19 academic year!

Children’ s Choir meets for the last time on June 9. We will resume on Sept. 15. In the meantime, children are welcome to participate in summer choir.

Adult Choir has its last Thurs. night rehearsal on June 6. We will resume Thurs. rehearsals on Sept. 5.

Summer Choir

Like to sing with a group without the time commitment of regular choir? All are welcome to join us for Summer Choir. We learn an easy anthem at 9:15. No procession, robes, or sitting up front.

In June, Summer Choir will sing on 6/16 and 6/23.

Summer Hymn Sings

The first Sunday of July, August, and September, we will have a hymn sing before worship (9:30 am). Come in and sing through some favorites! Requests welcome!

Thanks

Thanks to our Praise Band for playing at the National Day of Prayer.

Thanks to Emily Ta for offering cello music in May worship.

Thanks to our ensembles: Praise Band (including guest Noah Ta), Adult, and Children’s Choirs for their leadership in May services.

FELLOWSHIP HOURHOSTS NEEDED:You are responsible for providing treats, juice of the children and milk for coffee.Coffee, cups, plates, napkins, plastic utensils and sweeteners are provided.SIGN UP TO HOST@ coffee hour or contact:Julie Park 732-545-4266 mj1park@optonline.net or Tracy Rucinski 732-545-6982 traysee7413@yahoo.com.

2019 GRADUATESGRADUATE SCHOOL

Jessica Jones, Rutger’s - Masters of Social Work (MSW)

COLLEGEJake Bacchetti, Rutger’s – BA Science

Gwynn Marotta – Rutger’s - BATroy Posnansky, Drexel University – Interior

DesignClaire Stout, Duke University – BA Psychology

HIGH SCHOOLHannah Bernstein

Wil BradfordKatie George

Danae HollingsworthSarah JohnsonMarisa Keiser

Cameron WithumRyan Withum

8TH GRADEKatherine BernsteinBrianna DeLaFuente

Laney Dwyer Savannah Fedon

Alex GarbackAlex Hastings

Cynthia Rucinski Amanda Sullivan

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Please join us as we celebratePastor Rich Weyer,

His ministry, his friendship,his legacy…

Sunday, June 30th, 20192:00 to 6:00 p.m.

Reservations required!For Tickets or Information, please

contact:Carol @ 732-821-6420 or calagowski@gmail.com

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ST. PAUL’S CHURCHFounded in 1872

So. Main St. & W. Lakewood Ave.

Rev. Richard H. Weyer, Pastor

Emily Sensenbach-Gopal, Director of Music

Church Office 732 828-0020FAX # 732 828-0027

stpaulschurch@optonline.netwww.stpaulsmilltownnj.org

Please leave a message if no one is available.

Church Secretary Mrs. Carol LagowskiOffice hours: 9:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

Financial Secretary Mrs. Debbie Paley (address inquiries to church office)

Please address all financial inquiries to the Church Office.

2019 CONSISTORYElders:

Melanie DwyerKaren GourleyDavid Hasting

Lois JessenMatt Park

Greg ReevesNikki Wesen

Deacons:Nicholas Bamond

John GarbackDebbie KovacsTracy RucinskiBeckie RumenSean Sullivan

********************************Save time and prevent mistakes by writing your parishioner number on your checks and envelopes. Example: 002W********************************Please notify the church office if any of the following changes occur in your household: address change, phone number change, email change, marriage, separation/divorce, death, birth, adoption, adult child(ren) moving out, or a family member being moved to a rehab. or nursing home.We would like to keep our membership list up-to-date, but we need YOUR cooperation to do so!

ST. PAUL’S CHURCH62 South Main StreetMilltown, NJ 08850(732) 828-0020

JUNE, 2019

ADDRESS SERVICE REQUESTED

DATES TO REMEMBER:June 1 – Deadline for Scholarship ApplicationsJune 2 - Communion June 3 – Golf OutingJune 9 – Pentecost/Communion/ConfirmationJune 3 & 16 - SYGJune 5 & 19 – ScrappersJune 10 – ConsistoryJune 17 – Transition Team MeetingJune 23 – Graduation SundayJune 30 – Pastor Rich’s Last Worship Service

TIDINGSWorship Service 10:00 a.m.Sunday School 10:00 a.m.

Rev. Richard H. Weyer, Pastor

DATED MATERIALMay 22, 2019