attitude assertiveness assimilation
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AMA
Welcomesdelegates
3As for Success
AttitudeAssertivenessAssimilation
A SMALL A SMALL TRUTH TO TRUTH TO MAKE LIFEMAKE LIFE
100% 100%
Hard WorkHard Work
H+A+R+D+W+O+R+K
8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%
KnowledgeKnowledge
K+N+O+W+L+E+D+G+E
11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%
LoveLove
L+O+V+E
12+15+22+5 = 54%
LuckLuck
L+U+C+K
12+21+3+11 = 47% ( don't most of us think this is the most important ??? )
Then what makes 100% ?
Is it MoneyMoney ? ... NO ! ! !
M+O+N+E+Y
13+15+14+5+25 = 72%
LeadershipLeadership ? ... NO ! ! !
L+E+A+D+E+R+S+H+I+P
12+5+1+4+5+18+19+9+16 = 89%
Every problem has a solution, Every problem has a solution, only if we perhaps change our only if we perhaps change our
attitude.attitude.
To go to the top,To go to the top,
to that to that 100%100%, ,
what we really need to go what we really need to go further... a bit more... further... a bit more...
ATTITUDEATTITUDE
A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 =
100%100%
It is It is OUR ATTITUDEOUR ATTITUDE towards Life towards Life and Work that makes OUR Lifeand Work that makes OUR Life
100%100% ! ! !! ! !
Attitude
Attitude is a person’s standpoints, viewpoints,
which lead to responses to different stimuli
Black Balloon
How it works?
Hear Bomb BlastGreat MusicGuns Firing
Smell Soft Perfume
Dead Rat
Touch FireChilled IceSoft leatherRough
Surface
• Taste Chili• Sweet Juice• Bitter Chocolate
• SeeBeautiful Scenery
• Dead Bodies• Excellent Movie• Cheap Posters• Attractive Boy / Girl
How Attitude is formed?
• Education (Told)
• Envoirnment(Observed)
• Experience (Self & Others)
• Education (Told) :
• Don’t play in dirt.• Don’t go near water pool.• Don’t ignite fire.• Don’t eat bad food.• Do Study.• Eat fruits.
• Environment (Observe):
• Father drinks – son.• Neatness at home.• Discipline by parents.• Fights, arguments, disputes.• Love & Affection.
• Experience (Own & Others):
• Burnt hand in fire – fear.• Fall while running.• Cheated by others.• Praised on good deeds.• Dressing type, Hair Style attracts • Conduct & mannerism.
Stories
• Star Fish• Burn Your Ship• David and Goliath• Baigan Ki Sabzi• 4 Bacchon ki Amma• Jo hota hai
Assertiveness
• Aggresive• Submissive• Manipulative• Assertive
Assertiveness
• Feelings– Aware– Express– w/o hurting others
• Rights– Knowing– Exercising– w/o Hurting others
How to .....
• “I” Statements• Facts and Figures• Ownership• 4 Step statement• Broken Record
ASSIMILATAION
• To absorb, retain, make part of the whole, to mix, to include and become one with others.
EXAMPLES
• Sugar with Tea.
• Students understanding in stead of memorizing.
• Skills like Swimming, driving, riding bicycle.
• Employee / Officer dedicated to the cause of Company or organization.
APPLICATIONS
• Adds to Adaptability.
• Helps in Learning.
• Creates Awareness & Understanding – Avoids conflicts & Self conflicts.
• Understand Others Problems.
• Manages Stress.
WAYS TO ENHANCE ASSIMILATION
• Study in stead of Reading.
• Apply.
• Practice
BENEFITS
• Greater Self Esteem
• Greater Popularity
• Greater capacity to do Things
• Wish you
•SUCCESS• In life!
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