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June - August 2013

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Inside Front Redfern Party Products Back Page Plastics for Africa1 Table View School 3 Refern Labels 4 From the Editor 5 Healthy Kiddie Parties 6 Outings I Getaways 7 Party & Play I Venues9 Giveaway 10 Cakes 11 Suppliers 14 On-line Shopping 16 Mother & Child 17 Photographers 18 Services I Training & Tuition 19 Extra Mural21 Fundraising 22 Autism & Siblings 23 Therapists 24 Medical 26 Paarl | Somerset West26 Stellenbosch 27 Parow I Brackenfell 28 Kraaifontein I Kuilsrivier 29 Parow I Goodwood 29 Giveaway

30 Importance of a Father Figure 32 Belville 33 Durbanville 35 Goedemoed 36 Uitzicht I Langeberg Ridge 37 Monte Vista I Summer Greens37 Milnerton | Richwood 38 Bothasig | Burgundy Estate38 Table View 39 Table View 41 Parklands | Sunningdale 42 Blouberg 43 Melkbosstrand 43 Zumbatonics 44 Pinelands | Mowbray44 Sybrand Park 45 Claremont | Wynberg 45 Amy Folgate story 46 Plumstead | Bergvliet 46 Biting 47 Heathfield | Meadowridge 48 Oranjezicht | Tamboerskloof48 Sea Point | Constantia 49 Kirstenhof | Diep River49 Tokai | Simons Town49 Noordhoek

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From the EDITOROne of the things I love about the juvenile products industry is how many different kinds of products there are to meet the needs of parents and children. We see new products and businesses every day that are innovative, insightful and successful and we continue to see success stories in the industry. Companies have offered quality for years and remained nimble in the face of changing economic climates. We are pleased that we were able to bring them to you in these pages.

Our new facebook page https://www.facebook.com/ConnectingKidz will offer you the opportunity to win awesome prizes on a regular basis as well as bringing you insightful news. Kindly visit the page and share with your friends.

Keep drinking your Vitamin C, dress warmly and stay healthy this winter. Nicky

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A healthy kiddie party . . . is that possible?

Most health freak moms dread kiddie parties. What kind of snacks will there be at the party? My child will get a sugar-rush and bounce off the walls! They can’t drink that cool drink - it’s loaded with colourants and preservatives... These fears are real and well substantiated. However, there are two sides to the coin. Firstly, if your children are well fed at home and know what is good for them, they will not overindulge in all the bad sweet stuff at a party. Great was even my own surprise when my 3-year old said no to a piece of my son’s gluten-free sugar-free chocolate party cake and turned around to dip a piece of celery in hummus! Secondly, there is much that any hostess can do to offer more healthy alternatives at a kiddie party.

But how do I present a kiddie party that is fun and healthy? Be innovative and creative and set your own preconceived party ideas aside. For drinks, opt for homemade iced teas by mixing rooibos with a small amount of fruit juice (ratio 4:1) and lots of ice; or make

a punch by adding small pieces of fruit to the iced tea. A healthy chocolate smoothie made with raw cacao would be enjoyed as a ‘chocolate milkshake’ and fro-zen yoghurt or fruit ice lollies are a refreshing treat on a hot summer’s day.

As sweet treats, fruit kebabs, date balls or chickpea fudge are healthier choices, and a ‘fruit and chocolate’ fondue is always a great hit! For the party pack, make a tasty trailmix for the kids to nibble on. Seeing that more and more kids are gluten- or wheat-intolerant, try a delicious gluten- or wheat-free chocolate or carrot party cake, which both the parents and kids will enjoy. Or be creative like the moms in Knysna and consider a fruit tower cake!

On the savoury side, there are many healthy options. Homemade salted popcorn and salted Lay’s crisps go a long way. Make an enticing platter with crudités and dips, small blocks of cheese, sausage rolls and other savoury treats.

The healthiest ingredient though for any kiddie party remains an exciting and fun environment where they can be active with lots of free play!

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HAVE SIBLINGS TOO!Having a “special needs” kid is beyond tough on parents, but more often than not, we forget how tough this can be on the child in the spotlights’ sister or brother.

I had an interview with a 19yrs old sibling, *James, who has a brother on the autistic spectrum (high functioning Aspergers Disorder), has temporal lobe epilepsy and has also been diagnosed with OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) and ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). James answered all questions with extreme honesty and bravery.

What do you want to do and be when you are older?

I’m still undecided really, currently I’m in my first year of a BCom at UCT, but I’m leaning towards something with

computers. Or architecture, that seems really interesting too.

Explain what you know about your brother’s difficulties:

I know he has Aspergers, and a few other things; epilepsy, OCD. But the Aspergers gets mentioned the most. He’s really bad at dealing with people, but incredibly intelligent, even though he struggles with communication.

Do you ever wish that you didn’t have a brother or a brother that was as “normal”as you?

I wouldn’t mind being an only child to be honest, or having a sibling much younger than me. *Mike is difficult to live with sometimes.

Do you ever feel people ignore what you want?

I used to feel this a lot when I was younger, thought he got all the attention. And sometimes, as recently as last year, I feel like my academics got compared with his. It made me think “Yeah, he’s smart, but he can’t do a lot of things that are important too, like deal with people, and I can, so why are marks so important”.

What are some of the things that you don’t like about your brother?

He’s very loud, in the mornings if he’s up normally everyone else is up. He can’t control the volume of his speech but he also just doesn’t even think, he’s quite careless with most things. He has no sense of boundaries, I’m not allowed near his room but he always barges into mine to practise his spin bowling in my mirror. I feel he can do a lot more

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than he lets on, he has problems with his hands and he does things slowly, but I remember times where he’s done something with ease with no one around only to struggle when there is someone to take the stress of doing it away from him. Those are the main things really.

What are some of the things that you like about your brother?

I must admit he is very dedicated, and he has overcome a lot, I remember people doubting whether he would even finish school. I admire that. He is quite loving, and loyal. He’s very loyal. And it’s nice having someone to help me with my work when I need it.

Anything you wish everyone knew about you or your family?

Not really, we are what we are, people’s opinions don’t really bother me.

If you can change one thing in your life, what would it be?

My course, I hate it, commerce just isn’t for me. My girlfriend’s parents too, sometimes they are far too strict.

What will help you in your life?

Motivation, I’m lacking it at the moment.

If you can be the interviewer, what are some of the questions you would ask yourself?

While you were growing up, did anyone ever explain your brother’s needs to you?

How successful do you think your brother will be? What do you think he will be able to do on his own?

James’ brother will be 21yrs old in October this year. He is 3rd year at UCT and majoring in Mathematics and Computer Science. He has done very well and the Disability Unit at UCT is very good and supportive according to his mother.

From a professional point of view, this interview has been an eye opener for me. I will focus more on sibling interaction and sibling needs in the future.

Thank you to James, a brave soldier of his brothers’ army. *Names have been changed.

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1. Place the fruit, nuts, coconut, seeds and spices in a food processor and pulse until well chopped, but not pulverised.2. Add the syrup or honey, water or juice and rolled oats - pulse for 30 seconds.3. Take tablespoons full of the mixture and roll into balls.4. Roll in toasted sesame seeds or desiccated coconut (optional).5. Refrigerate for 30 minutes before serving.

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THEIMPORTANCE OF A FATHER FIGURE

What difference does a dad make? Are they really that important?


Yet just being physically present isn’t enough to be a great father. It is critical that a dad be warm and emotionally available to his child. Author and researcher, John Gottman, describes this kind of father as an “emotion coaching father.” Emotion Coaches are parents who listen to their children’s feelings, see the sharing of feelings as an opportunity for intimacy, and validate their children’s emotions.

While children may not always recognize the importance dad plays in their lives, most children long for and need a loving, involved and responsible father or father-figure. It is far more important to be emotionally engaged in the life of your child than, the newspaper, your hobby or even your job . . . if for no other reason than to avoid the risk of being put on the trading block!

Why Are Male Role Models So Important?

• Just like a student needs a math teacher to teach him math, or a swimming teacher to teach him swimming, he needs a male role model to teach him to be a man. And not just any man, a strong, capable man with a good sense of right and wrong. When a son does not have a father to look to as a positive role model, he may turn toward outside influences. Boys may aspire to be like the rappers, rockers, actors, and athletes who permeate our culture or even older kids in the neighborhood. Without a solid, consistent male

role model in their lives, boys drift towards manhood without a compass, and easily end up lost.

Providing Other Examples of Positive Male Role Models

• A child without a father is not doomed to a life of crime and mental disorders. Single moms should actively seek out alternative male role models for their sons and daughters. Male teachers make for wonderful male role models. male coaches, male youth group leaders or pastors, music teachers, grandfathers, uncles, and even community mentors can make great male role models.

Benefits of Male Role Models

• Fathers who provide their time and attention to their children will produce more secure, disciplined, and successful children. Kids without father figures can connect with positive male role models in their school, community, or extended family to achieve similar effects. Single moms need to take the time to make sure that their children’s exposure to negative male role models is limited while helping their children bond with men who are willing to make a positive difference in a child’s life.

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For the most part, studies have consistently demonstrated that father’s - whether they live with their children or not, matter in the lives of their children. When fathers are present, they provide economic support for their children and assume emotional and caregiving responsibilities. Well-fathered children are shown to be more emotionally intelligent and socially successful as adults. When fathers are absent, their absence may negatively impact children’s academic achievement, gender-specific development, general behavioral adjustment and anger management, especially in males.


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For Izabelle’s 5th birthday, we decided to have a party with a difference. Rosie, my Zumba instructor, joined us in a fun filled, memorable birthday party. Even 3 year old Benjamin did the Reggae with the best of them.

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My daughter was asked to write a letter on what Autism Awareness meant to her. This is the letter she submitted to her school in hopes to begin an Awareness day.

“Hi, my name is Leah Folgate. I’m 10 years old and in the 5th Grade. I have a little brother. His name is Bra-dlee, and he has Autism.

What does that mean? It means that he has to work even harder to do things like talk, make friends, learn, and even play with me. Autism is a different, no wrong, way to view the world. Everyone is different and unique. My hope is that we can help to teach everyone

to learn to love what makes us different. My brother’s Autism makes him special and funny. All I want is for him to succeed and stay true to himself. Not to change him, but change how the world views him and others living with Autism. I hope that he will have friends and love school. That’s why Autism Awareness is so important. I knew our lives would be different, having a little brother who has ASD. My goal is to help change how people view and treat those living with Autism. That people are kind and supportive of their special needs. You can’t judge a book by its cover, so I hope people will look past the outward and get to know how awesome kids with Autism really are.... “

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STOP BITINGEvidence suggests up to a quarter of all children will bite others at some stage, with most parents conceding that it’s one of the worst things your child could do in public. And, it can be just as alienating for you as for your child. Other parents are appalled; the poor victim has a throbbing red mark and you wish you could just sink into the ground. It’s about the most antisocial, public thing your child can do. Reactions of other parents can be out of proportion and it’s very difficult to remain calm.

Many parents of biters complain they receive an unfair dose of disapproval – often their children have been heavily provoked. Other children have equally antisocial habits – taunting and teasing – but the biter is the one who gets the blame.

Not all kids bite, but up to a quarter of all children will do so at some stage – mostly between the ages of two and three. It is a phase that does pass – by four; most children have grown out of it. Some try the odd nip and move on, others grow into serial biters. And it’s a serious problem – not least because it hurts so much and can get your child kicked out of play school. But it doesn’t mean your child is a monster – many biters are otherwise gentle and sociable.

Why do they bite?Not all children bite out of anger or to hurt another child – in fact young toddlers can’t really understand how much pain they’re causing. The first thing you need to ask yourself as a parent is “What is my child achieving by biting?” Think what the reward is for him or her – does s/he get a big amount of attention?”

Experts advise parents to try and see biting as a way of communicating rather than just bad behaviour – once we do that, we’ve got more choices in how to respond.


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Look at who they bite, when they bite and in what situations. And a tailor-made response will be more effective than a “one-size-fits-all” solution.• Experimenting • Expressing emotion• Defending• Controlling• Frustrated or irritated

How to stop itAlways react swiftly, and keep your cool. Don’t ever bite back or hit. Retaliation teaches them violence causes violence. Children need to know immediately that what they have done is wrong. Make sure your child also knows that you are addressing the behaviour (biting) as being bad, not them as a person.• Intervene: • Teach them to express themselves: • Teach them it’s wrong: • Reduce the effectiveness• Praise them for good behaviour:

Give the victim sympathy and the biter a clear message this is an unproductive way of getting attention.

When nothing worksThere are a number of reasons methods may not work – there may be something getting in the way of your child learning – perhaps anxiety. Some children learn at different speeds and won’t pick up on things straight away – you might just need to be more persistent.• Give clear commands and be positive: • Stick with it: • Seek help or advice first from friends and other parents, or teachers and nurseries and health visitors, who can also point you in the right direction if you want to take it further.

If these interventions fail contact a Psychologist to assess your child and assist you to become an empowered parent. In serious cases a paediatrician will assist by prescribing a low-dose of neuroleptics. It seems to slow that strong emotion that gives rise to aggressive behaviour. The latter will only be effective if the source of “biting” is addressed.

Courtesy Rose-Hannah Brown Counselling PsychologistTel: 021-987 0111

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I won’t always cry, Mummy, when you leave the room, and

my supermarket tantrum, will end too soon.

I won’t always wake, Daddy, for cuddles through the night,

& one day you will miss having a chocolate face

to wipe. You won’t always wake to find my foot is kicking

you out of bed, or find me sideways on your pillow where

you want to lay your head. You won’t always have to

carry me in asleep from the car, or piggy back me down

the road when my little legs can’t walk that far. So

cherish every cuddle, remember them all, One day

Mummy, I won’t be this small.


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